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User Topic: Heart Attack
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My Grandmother had a heart attack. She lives in a small town in Michigan, near the Ohio border. She spent a week in a hospital in Toledo.

How I found out?? She emailed herself when she got back from the hospital.

She has buried her oldest son, my dad, in 2011 and her husband a year later in 2012. This October she turned 90.

She says in her email that she's annoyed at all the poking and prodding done while in the hospital and feels a bit like a pin cushion. She always was a no-nonsense tough as nails business woman... She was the administrator of a small regional hospital in my hometown.

She says she just wants to get back to her routine.

If you can spare a good thought or prayer for my tough old Grandma I sure would appreciate it.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24750 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for your grandmother


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending good thoughts to your grandmother.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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cantlivewithouth
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for your grandma.


Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.

My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.‎


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She sounds like a very strong lady...healing and positive thoughts to her


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((jrc))) +++ to your grandmother


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((jrc & grandma)))) Keeping her in my thoughts, honey.


You can call me NIK

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-Walt Whitman


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looking forward
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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you and grandma prayers and wishes for health.


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love and mojo for your grandma. She sounds wonderful



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for your grandma!


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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope your gramma is doing well, jrc. She sounds like a feisty one. Sorta like my H's...
May yours live to hit at least the century mark.


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((jrc & grandma)))


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/34 The kidlets: DS14, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((jrc & grandma)))

Sending good thoughts and prayers.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((treasures & grandma))

Is there someone there who can keep an eye on her?


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama!,

My uncle and his wife live in the same town with her. He's looking after her.

Thank you for all your well wishes and prayers.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, November 14th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers sent for your Grandma.

((((jrc & Grandma))))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good thoughts and prayers for your grandma. She sounds a lot like my dear grandfather. He made it to 93, still feisty and loving.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((jrc and Grandma))) She sounds like my kind of grandma. It's sure tough being so far away from loved ones when they get sick.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:56 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love her spunk. Sending her healing mojo and strength.


(((HUGS)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers to her of course! My grandma was tough too! She outlived 2 sons and died at the age of 95!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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