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She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 3:52 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
It doesn't hurt quite as much this year....as in the past few... but I still remember it was on a Sunday night.....and that I cried all night before I had to go to work the next day. I broke down crying in my bosses office and confided in her and she let me go home (luckily we were pretty close friends even though I had just started my job not a month earlier!)
I had just graduated from my masters degree the end of July... started my new career on October 13th and then I found his emails to MOW on November 15, 2009. Ones he had written to her in September when I was struggling working full-time through a temp agency to help with the bills.
I never knew my whole life would change from one click of a mouse button to snoop in his email account. My marriage died that night.....and I didn't actually realize it truly until he left me 10 days before our 5 year wedding anniversary on April 30th, 2010. Our divorce was final on December 13th, 2010.
I hope that one day....maybe...I will forget all of these details that seem so vivid to me now.... and maybe these dates will pass me by without a thought. That would be nice.
But, if you told me 4 years and 1 day ago that today I would be a single mom and my child would not be my XWH's baby....I would have called you bat-shit crazy! Life has a funny way of doing a 180 on ya.... 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
katiesmom ( member #39074) posted at 4:15 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
BrokenDaisy ( member #37063) posted at 5:44 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Me xBW, him SA NPD WxH
1 son: sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
No longer broken
DDay 01/2012
10/2013 Finally Divorced!!
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 5:53 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Hey Shelly. We share a DDay anniversary: Mine was Nov 15, 2012.
... and this day fucking sucks. It's nice to hear it gets easier.
Wishing you all the best today.
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 5:57 PM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
((pass)) I know that one year out it still hurt pretty darn bad so I feel for you today! It does get better..... now its just a memory.....but sometimes I indulge in the feelings I felt that day and that's not a good feeling. I can't wait until one day its 11/16 and I let the day pass without a thought! Kinda like your name.... pass! Funny huh!! 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
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