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User Topic: Wading into my new Forum home
♀ 35214
Member # 35214
Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I pulled the plug on my marriage this week. I will be moved out by new years eve; possibly sooner if we can untangle all the joint stuff before then. It's an amicable split fortunately, no drama or tension. The two main feelings I feel are some sadness and a lot of relief.

I will be staying with my mom for a while and once I get some financial stuff squared away I'll get my own place and focus on making me a better me. I want to write another book, more poetry, more songs. I want to read more. I want to finish my degree. I want to learn how to play the dulcimer, and learn how to garden without killing plants (I once managed to kill a cactus -how sad is that??).

Most importantly - I'm not scared to be alone anymore. Actually I'm looking forward to it in a strange way. I spent so much of my life in relationships going along to get along, not making waves, because I didn't want to be alone. It's going to be a nice change to not do that anymore.

Anyways, Hi ya'll!

Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.

Posts: 438 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
♀ 24210
Member # 24210
Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome Wanna!

Although it sucks and is so hard, it sounds like you are in a good place mentally. That is 95% of the battle right there.

It is great you guys are able to work through it amicably too.

God didn't give you the strength to get back on your feet so that you can run back to the same things that knocked you down.

Posts: 2954 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
♀ 34146
Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome! Look forward to seeing more of you down here!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

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