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User Topic: Forgot what it felt like
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

to be attracted to someone!

It's a professional situation so nothing's going to happen...but he has occassionally had to attend meetings that I have to attend...today was one of those days...Someone at the meeting asked me if it was Miss Tesla or Mrs. Tesla and I *thoroughly* enjoyed emphasizing that it was MOST definetely *Miss* Tesla!!!

And then I mentally kicked my own ass for feeling like a was 16 again.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4745 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 7:14 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great to read! I had a two month fling with a guy I was so attracted to...I'm not sure I was ever that attracted to someone before.

Isn't it great?


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3488 | Registered: Dec 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10032 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
ChoosingHope
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Member # 33606
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, November 15th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This made me smile.

Posts: 1736 | Registered: Oct 2011
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 4:07 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Watch out. When it rains it pours.

You've been warned.

Just sayin'.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5660 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So nice to get back in the game isn't it!??!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This made me smile Miss Tesla


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3236 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well heck yes.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17709 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
JenniMay
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this post!

I recently experienced this myself! Went on a horse-back ride up in the mountains---just me, my mom & the guide.

I haven't been able to stop thinking about the guide! My mom said we talked for 2 hours straight & she was sure he was going to ask for my number at the end of the ride. We had so much in common--most importantly, horses!

We're going back for Thanksgiving & my heart races just thinking about it!

It's good to know there's actually blood pumping through my heart & I'm not totally destroyed from what happened almost 3.5 years ago, because I was starting to think I was!

[This message edited by JenniMay at 7:55 PM, November 16th (Saturday)]


Betrayed after 13 years of marriage.
DDay & Separated - June 2009
Divorced - March 2010


Posts: 686 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: On the Coast in Virginia
lifestoshort
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

great feeling!! makes us feel alive, and worthy. gives hope and vision for future things to happen.


6/07 EX had several Emotional/sexual A
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09
2013- 10 month marriage &D to friend. he was a lyin, freeloadn biploar mess.
NOW? Living my life and loving it.


Posts: 704 | Registered: Mar 2008
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post, Tesla!!

Was he paying attention? He should definitely be kicking himself if he missed an opening like that with a beautiful woman!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2476 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 11:27 PM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is so great when you can feel that again, whether it leads to anything or works out in the long run. Just feeling alive and all giddy and excited about somebody reminds you how it can be. I never thought butterflies where possible again - and yes, they are.



Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5550 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
traicionada
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy every minute of it


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3352 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
tesla
♀ 34697
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's it exactly...it made me feel alive again.

I have so many roles to play at the moment and balls to keep up in the air, I just don't have time to really even think about dating...

...but...

...I may need to ask him for his opinion on one of my troublesome students...


...over a candlelit dinner...

I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4745 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!

My new favorite quote!


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


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