Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: Starrystarrynight

New Beginnings :
Forgot what it felt like

This Topic is Archived
default

 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 1:00 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

to be attracted to someone!

It's a professional situation so nothing's going to happen...but he has occassionally had to attend meetings that I have to attend...today was one of those days...Someone at the meeting asked me if it was Miss Tesla or Mrs. Tesla and I *thoroughly* enjoyed emphasizing that it was MOST definetely *Miss* Tesla!!!

And then I mentally kicked my own ass for feeling like a was 16 again.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

posts: 5066   ·   registered: Jan. 31st, 2012
id 6563745
default

phmh ( member #34146) posted at 1:14 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

Great to read! I had a two month fling with a guy I was so attracted to...I'm not sure I was ever that attracted to someone before.

Isn't it great?

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

posts: 4993   ·   registered: Dec. 8th, 2011
id 6563753
default

Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 2:37 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

posts: 10722   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2011   ·   location: USA
id 6563809
default

ChoosingHope ( member #33606) posted at 2:39 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

This made me smile.

posts: 1855   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2011
id 6563811
default

SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:07 AM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

Watch out. When it rains it pours.

You've been warned.

Just sayin'.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

posts: 6062   ·   registered: Apr. 4th, 2012   ·   location: Australia
id 6563987
default

PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:14 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

So nice to get back in the game isn't it!??!

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

posts: 3871   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2011   ·   location: Happyville
id 6564139
default

better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:38 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

This made me smile Miss Tesla

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!

posts: 4246   ·   registered: Dec. 9th, 2010   ·   location: Missouri
id 6564165
default

FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:20 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

Well heck yes.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

posts: 21594   ·   registered: Jul. 7th, 2008   ·   location: Canada
id 6564554
default

JenniMay ( member #24595) posted at 1:53 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

Love this post!

I recently experienced this myself! Went on a horse-back ride up in the mountains---just me, my mom & the guide.

I haven't been able to stop thinking about the guide! My mom said we talked for 2 hours straight & she was sure he was going to ask for my number at the end of the ride. We had so much in common--most importantly, horses!

We're going back for Thanksgiving & my heart races just thinking about it!

It's good to know there's actually blood pumping through my heart & I'm not totally destroyed from what happened almost 3.5 years ago, because I was starting to think I was!

[This message edited by JenniMay at 7:55 PM, November 16th (Saturday)]


posts: 793   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2009   ·   location: On the Coast in Virginia
id 6564575
default

lifestoshort ( member #18442) posted at 3:39 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

great feeling!! makes us feel alive, and worthy. gives hope and vision for future things to happen.

Im 45. 1st H I left in 2001 after 3 kids. narcassist.
2nd exH had MANY affairs.FALSE R. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I got 100% custody. ex hasnt seen kids in 6 yrs.
2014 to now: dated highschool sweetheart. He cheated w 23 yr old & left.

posts: 1061   ·   registered: Mar. 2nd, 2008
id 6564655
default

thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:10 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

Great post, Tesla!!

Was he paying attention? He should definitely be kicking himself if he missed an opening like that with a beautiful woman!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

posts: 5033   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: the Other Side
id 6564694
default

fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 5:27 AM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

It is so great when you can feel that again, whether it leads to anything or works out in the long run. Just feeling alive and all giddy and excited about somebody reminds you how it can be. I never thought butterflies where possible again - and yes, they are.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

posts: 1334   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6564745
default

Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:26 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

posts: 6708   ·   registered: Jul. 15th, 2012   ·   location: Florida
id 6564925
default

traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 3:37 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

Enjoy every minute of it

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

posts: 4020   ·   registered: Apr. 5th, 2006   ·   location: Dallas, Texas
id 6564933
default

 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 4:31 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

That's it exactly...it made me feel alive again.

I have so many roles to play at the moment and balls to keep up in the air, I just don't have time to really even think about dating...

...but...

...I may need to ask him for his opinion on one of my troublesome students...

...over a candlelit dinner...

I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

posts: 5066   ·   registered: Jan. 31st, 2012
id 6564977
default

newnormal ( member #21925) posted at 5:33 PM on Sunday, November 17th, 2013

I'm eyeing the emergency exit at the back of the bus and wondering if I can make a break for it!

My new favorite quote!

BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo

posts: 1034   ·   registered: Dec. 5th, 2008
id 6565018
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy