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User Topic: Movie suggestion
♀ 41309
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Going to the movies used to be something we enjoyed pre- affair. Now, however, it only seems safe to go see action, adventure type movies because of possible triggers etc. Last night we took a chance and went to see "About Time". Although there we a few mentions of oral sex and 1 or 2 brief bedroom scenes, the movie had a positive message about love and family and a sentiment of living each day to the fullest and appreciating the small moments in life that we often overlook, but should treasure. We both cried and was good! I recommend it!

Posts: 51 | Registered: Nov 2013
♀ 40674
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Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saw it too post dday.
Liked it
Cried all the way through
But that's kind of me at the moment

Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."

Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
♀ 30817
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There is one moment in that movie that I think could be super triggery for folks, but on the whole I really enjoyed it.

Him WH
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 8014 | Registered: Jan 2011
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, November 16th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the review. Most movies trigger my W; some trigger me. This sounds like it's got a low trigger-quotient.

[This message edited by sisoon at 11:26 AM, November 16th (Saturday)]

fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

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