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khrisdeus posted 11/16/2013 15:20 PM

It's all still coming out. More and more names are coming out. Some of them are my friends. On the upside I'm shifting from hurt to anger which helps. I've managed to go since Thursday without seeing her, which is good because the context of that conversation was "so I'm not allowed to be friends with you, ask you how your day was, anything like that? Did I do something to piss you off?" Yes, you've slept with my friends and you're leaving me and taking away my children. She still refuses to file, but i think Monday morning I'm going to bite the bullet and just do it.

Merlin posted 11/16/2013 15:41 PM

If you're done, file on Monday. Sounds as though her leaving may be good for your health and sanity.

But where does she think she's taking your children?

As you work with your attorney (find the Godzilla of divorce lawyers and hire her/him) make sure you get how custody - legal and residential, temporary and permanent work in your jurisdiction.

Your STBX sounds as though she is pretty effed up. That needs to be her problem and neither your children's nor your issue.

Nature_Girl posted 11/16/2013 17:43 PM

Don't let her take your kids. What? Why would you do that?