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Divorce/Separation :
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 khrisdeus (original poster new member #41265) posted at 9:20 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

It's all still coming out. More and more names are coming out. Some of them are my friends. On the upside I'm shifting from hurt to anger which helps. I've managed to go since Thursday without seeing her, which is good because the context of that conversation was "so I'm not allowed to be friends with you, ask you how your day was, anything like that? Did I do something to piss you off?" Yes, you've slept with my friends and you're leaving me and taking away my children. She still refuses to file, but i think Monday morning I'm going to bite the bullet and just do it.

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Merlin ( member #30221) posted at 9:41 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

If you're done, file on Monday. Sounds as though her leaving may be good for your health and sanity.

But where does she think she's taking your children?

As you work with your attorney (find the Godzilla of divorce lawyers and hire her/him) make sure you get how custody - legal and residential, temporary and permanent work in your jurisdiction.

Your STBX sounds as though she is pretty effed up. That needs to be her problem and neither your children's nor your issue.

"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 11:43 PM on Saturday, November 16th, 2013

Don't let her take your kids. What? Why would you do that?

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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