All the outcomes of betrayal - R, D, limbo - take a lot of strength.
I could say I chose R because for me it's 'easier' than D, but that's just another way of saying I looked at my options, still loved my W, saw that my W was committed to doing the necessary work to R, so I chose R.
Bottom line: You need - and already have, though you may not yet realize it - a lot of strength now. Choose the outcome that you want and think is possible.
[This message edited by sisoon at 12:41 PM, November 17th (Sunday)]