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Topic: I am a vampire (extrovert)
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UnexpectedSong
♀ 21761
Member # 21761 |  Posted: 11:48 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 |     |
For 15 years, my H has been telling me that I'm an extrovert and I know I am, but I haven't truly accepted it. Now I do. I don't like TV - there, I've said that out loud. I like to be with people.
I need to suck people energy. I need people around me to feel alive.
My H just left for a week-long business trip. My group at work is going to an off-site meeting this coming week - I cannot attend because my H is on his trip.
I'm feeling lonely.
Just intensely lonely.
I have a lot of work to do... I have a lot of non-work stuff to do. I have to pay attention to the kids.
But I need... people. Like a vampire, even one day without people energy drains me.
I look forward to Mondays - there are people at work.
I need people.
WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker
Posts: 6421 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 11:58 AM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I know I am an extrovert to some extent because I enjoy people and talk too much  . However I really crave alone time because I don't get much of it ever. Then I realized I think about when the kids are grown and gone and Dh is busy and picturing this big empty house and I panic. Like stomach churning, tight chest, can't even imagine it panic. It's a problem, and I tear up even writing this. I'm a bit of a wreck about lots of stuff lately and I don't even know why. See? I just dumped my needy crap all over your thread  .
Sigh. Hang out here with me. We can suck the energy out of each other.
"79% of stair accidents happen on the stairs"..Gumball Watterson
Posts: 49773 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
UnexpectedSong
♀ 21761
Member # 21761 | | Posted: 12:35 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 | |
"Needy crap" = energy. That was good! Now I have a bit more energy. 
WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker
Posts: 6421 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 12:46 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 | |
Geez, US; you're post just sucked the energy out of this extreme introvert 
I'm loving my new job because I work nights and only have to deal with my staff of 14 nightcrawlers who are usually too busy to carry on a conversation 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Posts: 23790 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Southern New Mexico |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 1:31 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 | |
What meta said .
(Meta, keep getting more dogs and cats. That's what I did. You can talk to them all day and they don't mind. And they don't leave you like those rotten kids!  )
Suppressing your feelings only locks them in place.
Posts: 51198 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 3:14 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I'm the opposite, lol.
I very much like being in my own space. While I enjoy people, I am much better in small groups and I usually have to "gear up" for it mentally. Large gatherings suck the energy OUT of me. After big family gatherings, I tend to hibernate for a few weeks before I come out of my hole again. [This message edited by GabyBaby at 3:16 PM, November 17th (Sunday)]
Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Posts: 9465 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There |
UnexpectedSong
♀ 21761
Member # 21761 | | Posted: 3:26 PM, November 17th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I'm surrounded by introverts. My H is very introverted and so is my younger son. I don't understand them and they don't understand me.
Need. More. Humans.
WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker
Posts: 6421 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 8:56 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013 | |
I think this infographic explains us Introverts rather nicely.
http://themetapicture.com/how-to-interact-with-the-introverted/
Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Posts: 9465 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 9:39 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013 | |
Gaby - you beat me to it. Major introvert here. DS is a bit more moderate than I am, but DD is a big time vampire. She can drain both of us in under 5 minutes.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 37332 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 10:39 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013 | |
Hi fellow Introvert!
Your DS and DD sound exactly like mine.
My DS is also moderate and my DD is an introvert as well. My current hubby is an extrovert, though he's learned to give me my space.
XWH was extremely introverted. I looked like an extrovert if you stood us up together.
Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Posts: 9465 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There |
UnexpectedSong
♀ 21761
Member # 21761 | | Posted: 7:58 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013 | |
I feel so much better today! Work was total chaos - crazy issues, fixes, people all over each others' cubicles, phone calls. I was finally able to recharge from all that energy jumping around.
WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker
Posts: 6421 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: California |
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