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What to do when the OW is insecure and makes it your issue?

I am staying strong but I think I am more in shock!

Wasn't this suppose to be what the universe wanted for them to live in marital bliss?

I just don't get it

How is she making it your issue?

What is she doing to cause you a problem?

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 6:39 PM, November 17th (Sunday)]

She has started to interject herself into my child's phone conversations with me.

I really don't feel the need to hear her voice.

I just don't get it!

You're not being clear. From what you've written, it sounds like perhaps when you're talking to your daughter when your daughter is over there, the OW listens and adds her commentary that you hear in the background? Does she tell DD what to say? Is she intimidating DD so DD doesn't feel free to talk to you Does she grab the phone & talk to you? What is it she's doing?