WH agreed to MC initially, although he sometimes vacillates on it. It's been hard to find a counselor on our insurance plan (on MY insurance -- I'm so tempted to dump him during Open Enrollment in January) that has availability for a new client.
So we have an incredibly inconvenient 9:30am appointment on December 3rd. WH is upset about missing work since he's a contractor and paid hourly, but I pointed out that he was willing to miss work to fuck up the marriage by going out of town with her, so he should be willing to miss some work to help fix this mess.
Given that this appointment is so far off I went ahead and found another LMFT. This one's male (not WH's preference, but boo hoo) and convenient to WH's workplace. I've spoken with the therapist and he recommended that I come in by myself for the first appointment, and then make another appointment for the two of us.
I've never been in any kind of therapy. What can I expect?