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User Topic: OW and Karma
♀ 40317
Member # 40317
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been over 10 months since DDay#2 and I have to say things, for the most part, have been going very well with WS. We both, at this point, are on the same page and working toward the same goal.

Having said that...

Yes, I still creep on OW. I want Karma to keep hitting her. Hard. I know that my husband is the one that ultimately broke our vows, however I still hate her for making my husband part of a game she and her husband have been playing on each other FOR YEARS.

I can see some pics from her FB page. No, I don't have access to it, but can see the pics she posts for her profile pics. This morning, I took a good look at her latest one. I then looked at a pic from the time she started her relationship with my WS. She's AGED. Like, a ton. In two years. And as aged as she looks, she looks more FAKE too. More color on her hair, coloring her eyebrows to the point they are odd looking. Lots of new wrinkles.

She also is in the process of divorcing her own WS. She bought a house. She's always been the one with the big house, sports car, coach purse, teeny bopper jeans, V-neck sweaters to show off her fake boobs...she's in a TINY house in a not-so-favorable part of town. With her cheap, tiny, piece of crap leased vehicle she can't drive anywhere because she's gotta stay within the mileage.

She also has lost tons of "friends", no one pays attention to her when she goes out, and she has no boy toy at the moment.

And I can't help but be giddy. Karma, baby.

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 17 years
2 children
2 DDays

Posts: 285 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 14576
Member # 14576
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beep beep...and the karma bus makes another run!

Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 3 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5138 | Registered: May 2007
♀ 36529
Member # 36529
Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It always makes my heart smile to hear of another OW getting her just desserts. I am waiting for OW#1 in my story to get hers. And she will. She brings it upon herself. Patience.

Me: BS, 35
Him: WH, 35
3beautiful babies, 7, 3 and 4 months
DD1: 7/1/2012
OW#1: EA/PA for 14 months
OW#2: PA for 1.5 months
DD2: 9/17/2013 Back at it with OW#1 for 4 weeks.

Posts: 238 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 34671
Member # 34671
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the Karma bus...quite sure it will catch up to my OW also. My H said he saw her in their building (he tells me any time there is a siting) and she looked beat. Well since she is 10 years younger than me and already had "work" done...I feel that is some Karma...but I would love for a little more to hit her up.

Me - BS 55
H - WS 57/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 29, 26, 22
D-Day 8-5-11
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

Posts: 329 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
♀ 40317
Member # 40317
Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, November 18th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do have to say, she doesn't flaunt her fake boobs as much anymore. She used to wear low cut, tight shirts to accentuate them; but now they are only tight. lol. I think she had a wake up call from her relationship with WS as he told her they don't do anything for him...her WS used to tell her all the time the stuff he wanted her to get done, etc. She always had to look polished for him, as he wanted a Barbie doll on his arm.

Guess in the end, that wasn't what he wanted either as he kicked her to the curb too. lol

[This message edited by niaveone at 6:36 PM, November 18th (Monday)]

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 17 years
2 children
2 DDays

Posts: 285 | Registered: Aug 2013
Topic Posts: 5

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