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Amazonia posted 11/18/2013 09:45 AM

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I've been waiting to hear three little words. They came today, but with a fourth one, unwanted, tagged on.

"It's not cancer...yet."

I guess that's a good thing? Still wrapping my mind around it. It's messing with the new dream career, the one where I was supposed to be moving to a developing nation next week.

Surgery is scheduled, and fortunately I'm working with a really good specialist, one of the best in the area from what my doctor tells me. He's confident that he can remove all of the abnormal cells, the precancerous ones.

Like I told a friend the other day, when your life plan involves getting divorced at 27, hearing you might have cancer at 29 seems like the next logical step, right?

I'm surprisingly zen about it. I know it'll all work out how it's supposed to - just makes it tough to plan when I have movers coming next week, and flights already booked to the other side of the world, and work piling up on my new desk that I haven't even seen yet, and so much eagerness to get out of here and start the exciting new chapter that's waiting for me.

I'd love some healthy mojo.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 12:59 PM, November 27th (Wednesday)]

JustDone posted 11/18/2013 10:05 AM

MOJO!!

Yes, it's a good thing. I know you're busy, and things are hectic, but it could always be worse.

It's a stupid fourth word, but try to remember the first three words. They could have been different, they could have been "It is cancer".

Yes, surgery stinks, but I felt blessed when I heard the same words, and had the three bad spots cut out. I had to have more stereotactic biopsies since, but I still haven't heard those three words. I hope you never do. A fourth word is a blessing.

ajsmom posted 11/18/2013 10:09 AM

Covering you in prayer, Ama!

(((Amazonia)))

AJ's MOM

Crescita posted 11/18/2013 10:19 AM

Mojo headed your way. It sounds like you are in good hands, and from what I understand about where you are going, there should be some good hands there as well. (((Ama)))

lieshurt posted 11/18/2013 10:27 AM

Sending healing mojo your way!

jo2love posted 11/18/2013 10:46 AM

(((Ama)))

Sending you mojo good thoughts, and prayers.

MovingUpward posted 11/18/2013 11:14 AM

Sending you mojo.

It is always hard to hear the you might have cancer no matter what the age. I was nearly 31 when I was told I had it and there were evidence that it had spread. It shook my world. My only advice is to stay on top of it and make sure your doctors know your history when you see them for anything.

FaithFool posted 11/18/2013 13:26 PM

Sending love and healing Ama.

jrc1963 posted 11/18/2013 14:34 PM

Whoa...

Have I been out of the loop or did you keep this to yourself???

Ama! you have all my prayers and healing thoughts!!

solus sto posted 11/18/2013 15:08 PM

millions of hugs to you.

Remember: the important word is "NOT," not "yet."

Amazonia posted 11/18/2013 15:49 PM

jrc, I have mostly just discussed it with a few close people IRL. This is the first it's been online (anywhere...it's not going on fb at all )

Kajem posted 11/18/2013 15:57 PM

Keeping you in my prayers.

cmego posted 11/18/2013 18:06 PM

(((((AMA))))))

tushnurse posted 11/18/2013 19:16 PM

((((AMA))))

mojo MoJo MOJO.

Williesmom posted 11/18/2013 19:19 PM

You're in my thoughts.

I had precancerous cells removed 21 years ago. I remain vigilant, but I'm still taking names and kicking asses every single day.

You will, too. Please keep us posted.

BrokenRoad posted 11/18/2013 19:19 PM

(((hugs)))(((mojo))) and (((prayers)))

h0peless posted 11/18/2013 20:18 PM

Ugh. Sending strength.

LosferWords posted 11/18/2013 20:33 PM

Sending healing thoughts and mojo your way!

tesla posted 11/18/2013 20:44 PM

ohmygoodness! (((((Ama)))))

Thinking about you and sending you healthy, healing mojo!!

Lighthouse Heart posted 11/18/2013 21:00 PM

I'm very happy your fourth word was a good one. It's good to have this taken care of now even with everything else you have going on. It seems like a lot to deal with but you can and will do it.

Along the way please make sure you don't push your recovery. Do what you can, as you can. It will make a difference.

Wishing you strength and healing thoughts.

LH (who's fourth word was metastic)

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