Two weeks ago I woke up and realized my life was awesome. I didn't miss my STBX anymore and I actually was annoyed by him. I had a conversation with him last week about meeting with a mediator to get this show on the road. He continues to drag his feet.
This weekend I met someone. I'm not sure I would have been open to anytbing had I not have that epiphany. He knows I have kids but I am not sure what else he knows. He is a friend of my sister.
We went out a couple times this weekend and have been chatting ever sense. He seems very respectful.
This is all crazy to me because a month ago I thought I would never be interested in anyone else.
So a few things...
1. Do I tell him I am still legally married even though we have been done for 6 months now and he hasn lived here in 6 months.
2. If so, how.
3 I know some people will say This is all a bad idea but any other advice on this situation would be helpful.