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Topic: Does S help you heal?

Nest2007
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Posted: 5:42 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013

I have a textbook remorseful H. But I'm in so much pain. A mind that never stops. A mind that often wonders 'what if' about S. But I know once those words are spoken they can never be taken back.

So. Does S help you to heal? Will it help me to have days not consumed by thought of the A?

BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...

ChoosingHope
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Member # 33606

Posted: 6:08 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013

Yes!!! It forces you to start detaching. To take care of yourself. To take all that crazy energy off of him and put it towards something productive: healing yourself and moving forward.

You can read more about it in the healing library I think. Or google detaching.

(((HUGS)))

Posts: 1780 | Registered: Oct 2011

Thefly559
♂ 40268
Member # 40268

Posted: 6:16 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013

S helps unbelievably. It will give you time to breathe

"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"

Posts: 1027 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: nyc

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