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Nest2007 (original poster member #39532) posted at 11:42 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
I have a textbook remorseful H. But I'm in so much pain. A mind that never stops. A mind that often wonders 'what if' about S. But I know once those words are spoken they can never be taken back.
So. Does S help you to heal? Will it help me to have days not consumed by thought of the A?
BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13
Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.
Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.
ChoosingHope ( member #33606) posted at 12:08 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
Yes!!! It forces you to start detaching. To take care of yourself. To take all that crazy energy off of him and put it towards something productive: healing yourself and moving forward.
You can read more about it in the healing library I think. Or google detaching.
(((HUGS)))
Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 12:16 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
S helps unbelievably. It will give you time to breathe
"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"
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