SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

crazyblindsided posted 11/19/2013 18:35 PM

OMG! I cannot believe it. For the past couple of weeks my WH has had a complete turnaround. His business partner/ best friend just recently betrayed him. My WH feels EXACTLY the way I did when he betrayed me. My WH has sat me down to talk to me about his past actions and how he understands how badly he screwed our M up. He feels awful. I think I am seeing real remorse now. He has tears in his eyes when he says he can't believe what he did. I don't know why it is happening now, but we have had more than a few eye opening discussions and all I can say is I love this man and I am happy he gets it. I feel like my WH is back.

painpaingoaway posted 11/19/2013 19:12 PM

I'm so happy for you! Wonderful news!

BrokenMomof2 posted 11/19/2013 22:33 PM

I am so happy for you!

It is such a wonderful experience when we see a change for the better in our WS.

Sammy2013 posted 11/20/2013 01:12 AM

Glad you are seeing positives! It does feel good when they get it. I felt and still feel hopeful when WS shows that he gets it. We had a long convo tonight and he totally portrayed a WS who gets it. It was emotionally exhausting (the talks usually are), but I feel better about him and us.

Here's to continued forward momentum!!

blakesteele posted 11/20/2013 03:43 AM

Oh crazyblindsided....this is wonderful news indeed. I have seen how you love your husband, how much you are willing to do to save your M....it warms my heart that your husband is ready to fully accept the gift you are willing to give him.

God be with you both.

confused615 posted 11/20/2013 05:54 AM

Finally!!!!

Isn't it wonderful??

rachelc posted 11/20/2013 05:58 AM

CBS - that's great honey!! what a burden lifted.

crazyblindsided posted 11/20/2013 12:29 PM

Thank you so much everyone! It feels like relief. I feel excited. We have been having A LOT of Affair conversations, initiated by him, and I just am ecstatic about this.

I healed myself first and he sees that. He knows I got here on my own and a part of him is sorry he didn't help me more. He doesn't even recognize who he was back then. He also discussed going back to IC

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 12:42 PM, November 20th (Wednesday)]