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User Topic: Appeal window closed today...
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been waiting, with my breath held, ever since XPOS sent that remarkably stupid text on the day of our hearing last month that he "changed his mind and would notify the court that he wanted a divorce and not a dissolution." Well, he had 30 days to appeal the dissolution, and that window closed permanently today. There have been no filings according to the appeals court website. I didn't think he would actually do anything, but since his stupid brain cells have obviously taken over what was left of his normal functioning brain cells over the past few months, I simply wasn't sure what idiotic move he would make next.

Looks like the dissolution sticks, as is, and I can relax! Woo Hoo!

Now that is done, I will be calling XMIL in the next few days for the last time to let her know this changes nothing between her and the kids and that she is welcome in my home any time. She will never come (too elderly, too far to travel), but I want to at least make the offer so she understands this is between me and her d-bag, juvenile son and I don't hold anything against her.

Party time!!

ETA: I keep hearing the "Ding dong the witch is dead" song from the Wizard of Oz in the back of my brain, but the wording is changed to "Ding dong the dick is dead..." Where THAT came from I have no idea!

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 7:47 PM, November 19th (Tuesday)]

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

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Posts: 4962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
♀ 37895
Member # 37895
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, yep it must have been in the back of your mind however small the possibility.


Jemima Puddleduck is a trusting soul....
DD 1 Dec 2012; Divorced 11/13; 2 children
Me: BS (47) Him: WH (52) Her: 3 PA's
Ex bought a house, The Money Pit With Mold That Will Never Be Finished. He's living in the basement.

Posts: 726 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 18442
Member # 18442
Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thats awesome. My ex sent me an appeal on the 30th day. so he waited till the last second

6/07 EX had MANY affairs.
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I have 100% custody of. ex rarely sees.
2017: still trying to pick pieces up

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♀ 23890
Member # 23890
Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, November 19th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats and Whew! Great News!! Time to celebrate!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4432 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
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Default  Posted: 1:00 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA, having been appealed all the way to the state supreme court, all I can say is YAY!!!!

[This message edited by 5454real at 1:11 AM, November 20th (Wednesday)]

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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