Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: SnowyOwl

Wayward Side :
The good

This Topic is Archived
default

 Taurus517 (original poster member #37958) posted at 7:13 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

Hi, I just want to do this because after doing some reading I needed some positivity.

My beautiful W, started this a couple weeks ago after talking to a friend. She writes down 3 things she loves about me and in return I want to start doing the same. She is an amazing person and myself I'm an asshole that destroyed everything. She still gives me butterflies, sorry started to ramble. Lots of thinking lately, anyways I want to see if anyone wants to join me either BS and/or WS to list 3 things they love about their spouse.

Things I love about my W

1: her almond shaped eyes, very sexy !!!

2: her artistic view on things, very talented woman

3: her goofiness.

This is my start so I will continue outside of this but I hope this catches on with people. So big shout out to my W

Me: WS 31
A : 17 months
Her : BS/WS 26 (ShockedErica11)
A: 3 months
DD : 3
Relationship : 4
Married : 2
DDay : November 2012
Her DDay : June 2013

posts: 71   ·   registered: Dec. 31st, 2012   ·   location: Chamblee
id 6568213
default

Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:15 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

Only three!?

My three:

1. His beliefs and leadership of our little family.

2. His calloused hands and the comfort that comes with them.

3. His incredible patience.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

posts: 7926   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2011
id 6568460
default

TrulySad ( member #39652) posted at 3:52 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

This was always easy...

- His heart

- The way he gets excited and happy over seeing the people he loves. He's like a kid on Christmas morning.

- The way he always rolls over, even when we're mad, and curls up behind me, not letting go, as we fall asleep

Me : no longer a BW or BGF. Starting over!

Them : in the past, where they can stay.

posts: 961   ·   registered: Jun. 25th, 2013
id 6568522
default

pointofnoreturn ( member #41034) posted at 6:37 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

1. His warm hugs and cuddles.

2. His incredible patience with me.

3. All the in-jokes we share.

posts: 188   ·   registered: Oct. 18th, 2013
id 6568743
default

SandAway ( member #37775) posted at 6:49 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

1. His selflessness

2. His passion for for things he loves like cooking and gardening

3. His commitment to our family

fWW
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people

posts: 451   ·   registered: Dec. 11th, 2012
id 6568764
default

Sammy2013 ( member #41040) posted at 7:26 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

This is a great idea...

1. His dedication to his kids. No matter what has been said or done, he has ALWAYS been an incredible father.

2. His sense of humor. He's always ready to make someone laugh.

3. His hugs. He's a bigger guy and I love how he consumes me when he hugs.

WH -42;BS (me) 43
Married 17 years, 3 kiddos
First DDay 9/13. TT and 3 more DDays in the 6 months to follow. Reconciled in year 4 of the 2-5 year range.

posts: 264   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2013   ·   location: Southeast United States
id 6568807
default

finallyfree2011 ( member #37998) posted at 6:55 PM on Thursday, November 21st, 2013

1. His forgiveness

2. His desire to help others

3. His really cute butt :)

Me - WS
H - BH

D day - July 2011 after a 4 year relationship with OM

Reconciled and renewed our vows on our 22 Anniversary in June 2012

posts: 75   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2013
id 6570164
default

Reality ( member #39077) posted at 9:16 PM on Thursday, November 21st, 2013

Good post, Taurus.

1. Sorry to be trite, but his beauty. There isn't a single time, even in a massive confrontation, that I don't look at him and think, "Wow..."

2. His love of music. He can't keep still. It's almost like he's fae and gets caught in the sound.

3. His growing societal awareness. He will talk about the injustices he is learning about in his law studies how much it bothers him. I see a growing push to want to help, to make changes to improve the system. It's not a coincidence that this is mirroring him becoming more self aware in general.

posts: 292   ·   registered: Apr. 24th, 2013
id 6570355
default

 Taurus517 (original poster member #37958) posted at 4:37 AM on Friday, November 22nd, 2013

Thanks to everyone and its good to read the positives.

Me: WS 31
A : 17 months
Her : BS/WS 26 (ShockedErica11)
A: 3 months
DD : 3
Relationship : 4
Married : 2
DDay : November 2012
Her DDay : June 2013

posts: 71   ·   registered: Dec. 31st, 2012   ·   location: Chamblee
id 6570809
default

NoGoodUsername ( member #40181) posted at 10:40 PM on Friday, November 22nd, 2013

I want to play too.

1. Her moral compass. Not just that she has one and uses it, but makes conscious choices about it.

2. Her fierce heart. She's passionate and believes in things; feeling them keenly.

3. Her magic little hands. She can work with pretty much anything and produce beautiful results. From needlework to mitre saws, she has the skills and will.

Me: WH
Her: BW
Dday 7/11/13
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."

posts: 275   ·   registered: Aug. 5th, 2013
id 6571737
default

Alyssamd24 ( member #39005) posted at 12:05 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013

1. He is a hard worker

2. He is passionate

3. His humor

Sometimes the worst thing that happens to you.....the thing you think you can't survive....its the thing that makes you better than you used to be.

posts: 1316   ·   registered: Apr. 16th, 2013   ·   location: Massachusetts
id 6571835
default

KBeguile ( member #38348) posted at 3:58 AM on Saturday, November 23rd, 2013

I would like to echo Aubrie's cry of "only three?!?"

1. Her kindness and compassion to all people is unsurpassed by almost every other human being I've ever met. Heart is absolutely the most considerate woman I've ever known.

2. She is so very calm and easy-going. She is by far the most easy person to get along with I have ever met.

3. She gives the absolute warmest hugs and best kisses I've ever experienced.

Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19

posts: 824   ·   registered: Feb. 4th, 2013   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6572026
default

iwillNOT ( member #40605) posted at 2:21 AM on Sunday, November 24th, 2013

Ok then -

1. His ability to be completely, un-self-consciously goofy.

2. How capable he is - cars, plumbing, electronics, whatever it is, he can usually figure out what is wrong and how to fix it.

3. His beautiful brown eyes when he smiles and the edges get all crinkly.

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every

posts: 702   ·   registered: Sep. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 6572712
default

sosorry5454rl ( member #37637) posted at 2:29 AM on Sunday, November 24th, 2013

1. Absolutely selfless... takes care of everyone before himself. He will cook for his family and not sit himself until everyone else is satisfied.(He's actually working calluses off my hands and feet, filing my toenails and rubbing my feet right now)

2. Amazing cook!!!

3. Awesome father and grandpa! ! Amazing with children

Just listing 3 is tough! !

WW(me) 41
BH 50 (5454real)
Married 10 years
Currently in R and plan to stay there and succeed
DD 21, DS 19, SS 22, DS 8, DGS 2

posts: 62   ·   registered: Nov. 28th, 2012
id 6572719
default

grains ( member #32590) posted at 2:35 AM on Sunday, November 24th, 2013

my lovely wife has:

- listened to me when I am able to speak freely about my worst moments

- has kept the possibility of reconciliation open inspite of the tremendous pain and humiliation I caused her

- cared for my well-being inspite of what I have done

she is wonderful and I am truly grateful. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to say this.

WH 63
BS 52
No Children

Together 17 years
Married 7/21/2001










D-day#1 03/01/2011
D-day#2 7/8/2015
D-day#3 9/3/2015

posts: 800   ·   registered: Jun. 25th, 2011
id 6572724
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy