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User Topic: The good
Taurus517
♂ 37958
Member # 37958
Default  Posted: 1:13 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, I just want to do this because after doing some reading I needed some positivity.

My beautiful W, started this a couple weeks ago after talking to a friend. She writes down 3 things she loves about me and in return I want to start doing the same. She is an amazing person and myself I'm an asshole that destroyed everything. She still gives me butterflies, sorry started to ramble. Lots of thinking lately, anyways I want to see if anyone wants to join me either BS and/or WS to list 3 things they love about their spouse.

Things I love about my W

1: her almond shaped eyes, very sexy !!!

2: her artistic view on things, very talented woman

3: her goofiness.

This is my start so I will continue outside of this but I hope this catches on with people. So big shout out to my W


Me: WS 31
A : 17 months
Her : BS/WS 26 (ShockedErica11)
A: 3 months
DD : 3
Relationship : 4
Married : 2
DDay : November 2012
Her DDay : June 2013

Posts: 71 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Chamblee
Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Only three!?

My three:

1. His beliefs and leadership of our little family.

2. His calloused hands and the comfort that comes with them.

3. His incredible patience.


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 6532 | Registered: Nov 2011
TrulySad
♀ 39652
Member # 39652
Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was always easy...

- His heart
- The way he gets excited and happy over seeing the people he loves. He's like a kid on Christmas morning.
- The way he always rolls over, even when we're mad, and curls up behind me, not letting go, as we fall asleep


Me: Sad, but I will survive

True Love: What I have for my beautiful children.


Posts: 494 | Registered: Jun 2013
pointofnoreturn
♀ 41034
Member # 41034
Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. His warm hugs and cuddles.
2. His incredible patience with me.
3. All the in-jokes we share.


Me- WGF 22
Him- BBF 21
Ddays:
August 2011
September 26th, 2013

"A lesson is learned. Life is. Simply. There is no Death. There is no Before. There is no After. All is in Flux. Simply."


Posts: 187 | Registered: Oct 2013
SandAway
♀ 37775
Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


1. His selflessness
2. His passion for for things he loves like cooking and gardening
3. His commitment to our family


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2012
Sammy2013
♀ 41040
Member # 41040
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, November 20th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a great idea...

1. His dedication to his kids. No matter what has been said or done, he has ALWAYS been an incredible father.

2. His sense of humor. He's always ready to make someone laugh.

3. His hugs. He's a bigger guy and I love how he consumes me when he hugs.


WH -37; BS (me) 38
Married 13 years, 3 kiddos
First DDay 9/13. 3 more since then (trickle truth sucks). 6 years of Prostitutes, 2 affairs in 2013, SA diagnosis now with 1 relapse so far (massage parlor with happy ending 2/14).
Waiting, observing,

Posts: 214 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southeast United States
finallyfree2011
♀ 37998
Member # 37998
Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. His forgiveness
2. His desire to help others
3. His really cute butt :)


Me - WS
H - BH

D day - July 2011 after a 4 year relationship with OM

Reconciled and renewed our vows on our 22 Anniversary in June 2012


Posts: 65 | Registered: Jan 2013
Reality
♀ 39077
Member # 39077
Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good post, Taurus.

1. Sorry to be trite, but his beauty. There isn't a single time, even in a massive confrontation, that I don't look at him and think, "Wow..."

2. His love of music. He can't keep still. It's almost like he's fae and gets caught in the sound.

3. His growing societal awareness. He will talk about the injustices he is learning about in his law studies how much it bothers him. I see a growing push to want to help, to make changes to improve the system. It's not a coincidence that this is mirroring him becoming more self aware in general.


Posts: 292 | Registered: Apr 2013
Taurus517
♂ 37958
Member # 37958
Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks to everyone and its good to read the positives.


Me: WS 31
A : 17 months
Her : BS/WS 26 (ShockedErica11)
A: 3 months
DD : 3
Relationship : 4
Married : 2
DDay : November 2012
Her DDay : June 2013

Posts: 71 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Chamblee
NoGoodUsername
♂ 40181
Member # 40181
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to play too.

1. Her moral compass. Not just that she has one and uses it, but makes conscious choices about it.

2. Her fierce heart. She's passionate and believes in things; feeling them keenly.

3. Her magic little hands. She can work with pretty much anything and produce beautiful results. From needlework to mitre saws, she has the skills and will.


Me: WH
Her: BW
Dday 7/11/13
"May you be protected from hearts that are not humble, tongues that are not wise and eyes that have forgotten how to cry."

Posts: 261 | Registered: Aug 2013
Alyssamd24
♀ 39005
Member # 39005
Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. He is a hard worker
2. He is passionate
3. His humor


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 944 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
KBeguile
♂ 38348
Member # 38348
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like to echo Aubrie's cry of "only three?!?"

1. Her kindness and compassion to all people is unsurpassed by almost every other human being I've ever met. Heart is absolutely the most considerate woman I've ever known.

2. She is so very calm and easy-going. She is by far the most easy person to get along with I have ever met.

3. She gives the absolute warmest hugs and best kisses I've ever experienced.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 802 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
iwillNOT
♀ 40605
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok then -

1. His ability to be completely, un-self-consciously goofy.

2. How capable he is - cars, plumbing, electronics, whatever it is, he can usually figure out what is wrong and how to fix it.

3. His beautiful brown eyes when he smiles and the edges get all crinkly.


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 519 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
sosorry5454rl
♀ 37637
Member # 37637
Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. Absolutely selfless... takes care of everyone before himself. He will cook for his family and not sit himself until everyone else is satisfied.(He's actually working calluses off my hands and feet, filing my toenails and rubbing my feet right now)
2. Amazing cook!!!
3. Awesome father and grandpa! ! Amazing with children

Just listing 3 is tough! !


WW(me) 41
BH 50 (5454real)
Married 10 years
Currently in R and plan to stay there and succeed
DD 21, DS 19, SS 22, DS 8, DGS 2

Posts: 61 | Registered: Nov 2012
grains
♂ 32590
Member # 32590
Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my lovely wife has:

- listened to me when I am able to speak freely about my worst moments

- has kept the possibility of reconciliation open inspite of the tremendous pain and humiliation I caused her

- cared for my well-being inspite of what I have done

she is wonderful and I am truly grateful. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to say this.


WH 60
BS 50
No Children
Together 17 years
Married 7/21/2001
D-day 03/01/2011

Posts: 313 | Registered: Jun 2011
Topic Posts: 15

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