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Hi, I just want to do this because after doing some reading I needed some positivity.

My beautiful W, started this a couple weeks ago after talking to a friend. She writes down 3 things she loves about me and in return I want to start doing the same. She is an amazing person and myself I'm an asshole that destroyed everything. She still gives me butterflies, sorry started to ramble. Lots of thinking lately, anyways I want to see if anyone wants to join me either BS and/or WS to list 3 things they love about their spouse.

Things I love about my W

1: her almond shaped eyes, very sexy !!!

2: her artistic view on things, very talented woman

3: her goofiness.

This is my start so I will continue outside of this but I hope this catches on with people. So big shout out to my W

Only three!?

My three:

1. His beliefs and leadership of our little family.

2. His calloused hands and the comfort that comes with them.

3. His incredible patience.

This was always easy...

- His heart
- The way he gets excited and happy over seeing the people he loves. He's like a kid on Christmas morning.
- The way he always rolls over, even when we're mad, and curls up behind me, not letting go, as we fall asleep

1. His warm hugs and cuddles.
2. His incredible patience with me.
3. All the in-jokes we share.

1. His selflessness
2. His passion for for things he loves like cooking and gardening
3. His commitment to our family

This is a great idea...

1. His dedication to his kids. No matter what has been said or done, he has ALWAYS been an incredible father.

2. His sense of humor. He's always ready to make someone laugh.

3. His hugs. He's a bigger guy and I love how he consumes me when he hugs.

1. His forgiveness
2. His desire to help others
3. His really cute butt :)

Good post, Taurus.

1. Sorry to be trite, but his beauty. There isn't a single time, even in a massive confrontation, that I don't look at him and think, "Wow..."

2. His love of music. He can't keep still. It's almost like he's fae and gets caught in the sound.

3. His growing societal awareness. He will talk about the injustices he is learning about in his law studies how much it bothers him. I see a growing push to want to help, to make changes to improve the system. It's not a coincidence that this is mirroring him becoming more self aware in general.

Thanks to everyone and its good to read the positives.

I want to play too.

1. Her moral compass. Not just that she has one and uses it, but makes conscious choices about it.

2. Her fierce heart. She's passionate and believes in things; feeling them keenly.

3. Her magic little hands. She can work with pretty much anything and produce beautiful results. From needlework to mitre saws, she has the skills and will.

1. He is a hard worker
2. He is passionate
3. His humor

I would like to echo Aubrie's cry of "only three?!?"

1. Her kindness and compassion to all people is unsurpassed by almost every other human being I've ever met. Heart is absolutely the most considerate woman I've ever known.

2. She is so very calm and easy-going. She is by far the most easy person to get along with I have ever met.

3. She gives the absolute warmest hugs and best kisses I've ever experienced.

Ok then -

1. His ability to be completely, un-self-consciously goofy.

2. How capable he is - cars, plumbing, electronics, whatever it is, he can usually figure out what is wrong and how to fix it.

3. His beautiful brown eyes when he smiles and the edges get all crinkly.

1. Absolutely selfless... takes care of everyone before himself. He will cook for his family and not sit himself until everyone else is satisfied.(He's actually working calluses off my hands and feet, filing my toenails and rubbing my feet right now)
2. Amazing cook!!!
3. Awesome father and grandpa! ! Amazing with children

Just listing 3 is tough! !

my lovely wife has:

- listened to me when I am able to speak freely about my worst moments

- has kept the possibility of reconciliation open inspite of the tremendous pain and humiliation I caused her

- cared for my well-being inspite of what I have done

she is wonderful and I am truly grateful. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to say this.