More than normal. I'm 3 months out from DDday, and I did something similar to you - I moved out temporarily until I:
a) Was sure I had got the whole truth from him and
b) Felt like he was ready to do the work.
After those two things happened, though it was clear he was desperate to make the effort, I still spent the next month after moving back in waking up every day depressed and crying, feeling horrified that this was actually my life and this was actually happening, wondering why I was staying married to someone who had treated me this way, if I was being an idiot for allowing myself to potentially be hurt again, spending whole days just wandering from the kitchen to the living room obsessing, feeling severely depressed. And my WH is doing almost everything I ask of him and working very hard, and yes, we are communicating better than ever. I still felt, and sometimes feel, that way.
The rollercoaster has been insane, and from everything I read on here, that's very much to be expected. I've been through some extremely rough times in my life, but nothing has compared to this (I think because my husband is the only person who has every completely gotten through my defense mechanisms, and so I had no defenses to protect myself from him, didn't think I needed them). I resisted the rollercoaster for a while because I hated the person it made me, and I tried to force myself out of it, but what I have learned in this very short period (that feels like a million years), and the only real advice I have, is to expect wild, severe ups and downs for the foreseeable future. Don't make any emotional demands on yourself at all, and the advice other people on these forums have given me has helped, namely: don't put yourself under even the slightest pressure to make any major decisions in the first few months, just sit back and focus on doing nice things for yourself. I know I want to reconcile, and I feel that we are in R, but I am not forcing myself to stick with that feeling - just take care of you and ride that wave.
It's only really last week that I started having hints of feeling anywhere near 'normal' again, and I still wouldn't call this anything like my usual 'normal'. I can get a little work done now. I can concentrate on other things for a couple hours. I don't have to go to the bathroom and cry when we go out together and I hear a song that reminds me of the A, or feel exhausted for days after having to put a smiley face on to see friends.
I can tell you this: every feeling you're having is normal. Expect to have them for a while and for them to change on an hourly basis, and know that all of those emotions are OK. If you decide to R, OK. If you decide not to, OK. If you don't want to make decisions at all right now, that's OK too.
Me: BW, 30
Him: WH, 36
7 years of double-digit ONS, LTA, hookers - the works.
First found out: August 20, 2013
Whole truth: January 1, 2014