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copingdaily posted 11/21/2013 09:29 AM

Hey everyone,
Its been awhile since I was on SI, all had been good, no more 3some talk. Spending lots of nights alone or with friends. 2 1/2 years since Dday. The last 6 weeks he has been under alot of stress at work, so less sex, less communication. It has made me very paranoid. We have been arguing alot the last couple of weeks. Mostly me being a bit insecure but then a big mess up on his part and now we cant go on a paid cruise that my boss gave me. I think that allows me to have a fit. He has turned it all around. He is upset with me because I keep getting mad at him and he is tired. What does that mean? I hate worrying that after any bad week Ii may lose him when it should be he worried about losing me

MovingUpward posted 11/21/2013 12:12 PM

I think this means that the two of you need to schedule some time to be with each other outside the hustle and bustle of life. The stress has him exhausted and you insecure. Take a evening to just be with each other to do something together as a couple.

I can understand that this might be hard right now especially if you are angry over missing the cruise (I would be). See what is possible for you to do.

copingdaily posted 11/22/2013 11:48 AM

Gonna try, wish me luck.

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