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User Topic: Need Advice
♀ 34713
Member # 34713
Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey everyone,
Its been awhile since I was on SI, all had been good, no more 3some talk. Spending lots of nights alone or with friends. 2 1/2 years since Dday. The last 6 weeks he has been under alot of stress at work, so less sex, less communication. It has made me very paranoid. We have been arguing alot the last couple of weeks. Mostly me being a bit insecure but then a big mess up on his part and now we cant go on a paid cruise that my boss gave me. I think that allows me to have a fit. He has turned it all around. He is upset with me because I keep getting mad at him and he is tired. What does that mean? I hate worrying that after any bad week Ii may lose him when it should be he worried about losing me

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Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Texas
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think this means that the two of you need to schedule some time to be with each other outside the hustle and bustle of life. The stress has him exhausted and you insecure. Take a evening to just be with each other to do something together as a couple.

I can understand that this might be hard right now especially if you are angry over missing the cruise (I would be). See what is possible for you to do.


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Posts: 54369 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
♀ 34713
Member # 34713
Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonna try, wish me luck.

Treat others as you want to be treated

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Texas
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