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User Topic: Fun poll- what do You want for Christmas??
kernel
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like:

-for my land to sell at my asking price
-to afford a decent vacation next year (see previous wish)

That's about it, really.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5379 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 6:56 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want this. A bubble wrap calendar. Although it would probably last me all of one day.


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1954 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..i've got all the stuff i could want so i'd be more than happy with a long, peaceful night of glorious sleep..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 70
Her 66
Married 45 yrs (together 50 years!)
18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer.
. died from a brain tumor@57

Posts: 4980 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Ontario Canada
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're going tomorrow night to pick out my anniversary (12/14)/Christmas/Birthday (12/27) present and I can't wait.

I'm getting a super duper nice elliptical trainer. I really want one that has the google maps interface, cuz it would be SO cool to run all over the world.


Me, 50. (How did THAT happen??)
Him, 42 (JMSSC)
married 20 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3999 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
k94ever
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

- three pairs of Smart Wool socks 'cause it's COLD down in my wine shop. Yes...it's below street level and COLD.

- my hot flashes to go away so I can actually sleep through the entire night.

- my horse to realize SHE's the horse and wears the saddle and moves when I tell her to.

- to find the perfect hearty bread recipe for my bread maker.

Oh...and whirled peas.....


k9


BS: 58
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 7532 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12026 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12026 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This. (the guitar...accessories extra )

[This message edited by FaithFool at 8:31 PM, November 21st (Thursday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 20722 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12026 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, November 21st (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Everyone- love em! Keep em comin'!


WHERE'S THE PUDDING?!

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ninebark
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have that very mixer in 70's green :)

I wish i could have my dad with us this christmas because we all miss him so bad it hurts/

But in the relm of things I could have:

-a day off, I mean really off, no responsiblities.
- To be able to run without my nose running (it is a huge pain).
-a couple more pugs....I wish i had the space, I have become crazy pug lady.


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have that very mixer in 70's green :)

I like!


WHERE'S THE PUDDING?!

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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ISPIFFD- I'll be your friend!

YAY!! I'm actually getting something from my list!


Litterbox furniture

I don't know what this ^^^ means...

[This message edited by ISPIFFD at 10:39 AM, November 22nd (Friday)]


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would like to live close to family again. STBXH brought me out here to the desert far far away from family. Missing them.
Otherwise a kitchen aid with meat grinding attachment and pasta attachment would be great!
And some pretty awesome jammies!


"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 4396 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know what this ^^^ means...

Basically it's a piece of furniture designed to conceal a litterbox. I've been looking for a used piece of furniture to make-over into one because they are ridiculously overpriced. Turns out, used furniture is also ridiculously overpriced, I need to start yard-sailing.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
MartlArts
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crescita, are your kitties ok with a fully enclosed litterbox? I know some of mine aren't, so I'd be hesitant with the furniture myself. Of course, I may just have a claustrophobic kitty.


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!! I'm actually getting something from my list!

Happy dance!!


I would like to live close to family again.

(((StillLivin)))


WHERE'S THE PUDDING?!

Posts: 1830 | Registered: Feb 2010
ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, now I get what litterbox furniture means! Thanks for the graphic clarification


I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:35 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Basically it's a piece of furniture designed to conceal a litterbox. I've been looking for a used piece of furniture to make-over into one because they are ridiculously overpriced. Turns out, used furniture is also ridiculously overpriced, I need to start yard-sailing.

Crescita, My dad made one for me. Plywood. 2 hinges. Saw. White paint. Rectangular cushion on top. Idk of that's all the tools he used, I wasn't there when he made it. It was sturdy enough for an adult to sit on. It wasn't as fancy as those you posted, but I thought it worked out well. Unfortunately, I don't have the space for it in my current place. My XH gave it to his mother.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.


Posts: 4799 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MartlArts, my kitties are fine with the enclosed box, and I think this would be good because they would have more room and less opportunity to track litter all over.

Littleturtle, my SO thinks we should make one too, I'm just afraid project perfectionist mode will take over and it will end up costing a small fortune


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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