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Reconciliation :
Ugh trigger!

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 LearnToLoveAgain (original poster new member #40950) posted at 11:29 PM on Thursday, November 21st, 2013

Today I over heard a lady talking on her phone about how a guy gave her his number and even though she's married she still txted him and they've been txting hanging out etc etc. it made me upset. It's not even what happened with me and my H but it still made me trigger. I immediately txt my H and he talked me through it all and really helped me. I just wanted to tell her how rude and hurtful she was being to her H! Had to rant. Weird how something that isn't my situation made me trigger but I'm thankful my H is doing everything right and was able to help me :) (trying to find the positive everyday)

Me-BS
Him-fWS
DDay 8/03/13 husband told me not even 24 hours after it happened.

Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 11:52 PM on Thursday, November 21st, 2013

(((LTLA)))

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:49 AM on Friday, November 22nd, 2013

(((LearnToLoveAgain)))

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 LearnToLoveAgain (original poster new member #40950) posted at 1:31 AM on Friday, November 22nd, 2013

Thank you. Just sucks cause I was doing great today. I just have to tell myself it doesn't effect my situation or R or anything. Just sucks to hear like its causal and no big deal.

Me-BS
Him-fWS
DDay 8/03/13 husband told me not even 24 hours after it happened.

Almost ONS actual sex never took place
Currently in R and doing great.

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