The Princess' new man (let's call him "Rig Pig") is taking her to Cuba for a week of the xmas holidays. She had told me she will be gone until Jan 4. I have my time with my family planned, and then the boys and I are coming back home to hang out for the rest of the time.
I just had a very nice date last night, and hope to have more (maybe even multiple dates with the same woman?) in the future, so I thought it would be nice to know if I was going to have a Saturday night free. My text exchange with The Princess:
Me: After your xmas holiday, what time will you be picking up the boys on Jan 4?
Her: Don't get in until 1:00 a.m. on the 5th so would get them later that day.
Me: K. Not trying to get rid of my boys, but please figure out a pickup time and let me know.
Her: Sounds like you're making a plan. How about 4:30?
Me: 4:30 works
She won't have seen her little boys since Dec 26, will have spent all week with Rig Pig, gets in at 1am, but can't be arsed to get the fuck out of bed and get here until 4:30? She needs her 14 hours of sleep (assuming with Rig Pig) after a week in the sun? Fucking bitch.
I will make sure that the boys and I have fun during that time, so I'm not really concerned about spending an extra day with my boys; I might even appreciate it! However, her boys love the shit out of her, and she will only see them for about three days of their xmas break (she's a teacher, so she has the same break!). Surely, she could part with Rig Pig a few hours earlier after a whole week and a half together? Apparently not.
Also, she just had to apply the "Sounds like you're making a plan" dig. Whether I'm making a plan or not, is none of her business. And if I were making a plan, 4:30 on a Sunday sounds like a good time for that?
I'm not even going to bring any of this up with her. Fuck her. I will enjoy another day with my boys, and enjoy maintaining a good relationship with them as they go into their teen years. As someone on here told me once: I'm not responsible for her relationship with our kids anymore.
But I just don't get it.
Two sons: Born 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?
Finally divorced Jul/17
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!