Just some thoughts on this as it relates to communitcation.
Some of the biggest insights I have had into Fwh's point of view have come "accidentally", in this form.
For example, one time we were just sitting around talking and he was bemoaning the fact that his iPod was broken. He then went on to say, "I bought this for myself when we were dead broke. What a guy!"
I cannot tell you what these kinds of revelations mean to me. And I would say, especially if you are a WS, share these thoughts.
Obviously, this had occurred to me when he mentioned this. But the fact that HE brought it up meant the world.