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User Topic: This weekend
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My weekend got upended, ex-shat backed out on Teslet. But I'll take bonus time with my kid:)
We are going to get Christmas cards sent out. Go on our first cold weather hike of the season. Have a movie night tomorrow night. Bake some cupcakes.

Any body got a weekend I can live vicariously through?

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I await a Xmas Card from you!

Biggest priority is to help out my bachelor neighbor two doors up who just had hernia surgery. He is not feeling well at all!

Plan to watch my beloved Indiana Hoosiers play basketball in NYC tonight - hopefully with a neighbor.

Will run in a 5K tomorrow. I broke a bone in my arm and severely sprained my wrist falling at the very end of a ten mile trail run three weeks ago, and am feeling a bit better now. Have not run in three weeks, but going to give it a try in the morning. Going to be damp and in the low 30's. Maybe I can win my age group again if other people don't show up.

Just made plans to meet a gal for dinner 55 miles north of where I live. Not really that interested in her since she lives even further north than that, but tired of staying home as I have the last couple weekends. Will ask her to wear a Tesla mask so she looks really hot!

Plan to go for a long dog walk on the golf course early Sunday with my morning friends, go to church, Wal Mart, assisted living place and then come home and watch some football.

Will take my dogs for another walk sometime that afternoon as well..

[This message edited by Bebba1171 at 4:19 PM, November 22nd (Friday)]

Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 734 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Western Kentucky
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LittleCmego's birthday party…GameTruck will be pulling up in the morning. OMG, 10 crazy kids hyped on on video games/ pizza/icecream.

THEN, date with new guy :)

THEN have a big paper due.

THEN taking my kids to go buy our Christmas tree on Sunday.

Whew. I'm tired just thinking about all of it.

me...BS, 46 years old.

Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Going to spend a quiet weekend with GDM, perhaps hanging some pictures and of course watching his mighty Ohio State Buckeyes romp over Bebba's (and my parents') Hoosiers. Maybe do a little junk store shopping--I saw a light fixture he may like. Just low key.


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 31262 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no plans this weekend and I am so happy about it. I feel so far behind in everything.
So, this weekend is going to consist of writing for NaNoWriMo, school work, cleaning, and finally putting away the Halloween decorations that have been in the basement since November 1st. At least I still don't have them in the front yard.

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is my birthday and I'm going out with a bunch of friends and SO tonight. It should be a lot of fun!

Beyond that, I don't have a clue.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 16055 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I'm not sure you'd want to live vicariously through mine, but it will have a few fun moments:

Tonight, crash with TV. I'm exhausted!

Tomorrow, volunteer work in the morning, then off to an extra rehearsal with my choir. If the weather is okay, I'm going to meet a friend for a celebratory birthday dinner, and then we're going to go see Catching Fire.

Sunday: laundry, grocery shopping, cleaning, probably grading papers. That's the day you definitely don't want to live vicariously through.

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The kids were off school today. I've been hanging out with them since about 8am... We did DS7's school project. They played video games and watched a movie. I'm ready for bed!!!

Saturday - I need to pick up some Christmas cards for the exchange and for my own family. I thought I was going to get done early, but when I went to get the cards from last year... I found about a dozen. Anyways, I'm planning to see my family at a soccer game, and then hang out with SO's aunt. She needs a new phone, I guess. Not sure what is going on Saturday night. Hopefully something fun!

Sunday - Sunday school as always. Then, meeting a friend for lunch and trying on bridesmaid dresses. Should be fun to catch up with her.

For now, I'm looking forward to the kids going to bed.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.

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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Met a friend for supper tonight. Absolutely no plans for the weekend, but I'll fill it with laundry, gym time, reading, and walking the dogs.

This time of year is hibernation season for me.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9168 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got back from a work trip, had dinner with my BF, now home and in for the night, it's cold and wet outside.

Tomorrow want to get a few things done around the house, get a workout in, then meeting my BF to do some shopping and go see the new Hunger Games movie, and stay over at his place.

Sunday we'll have brunch and I will head home to get a few things done around the house before the weekend is done.

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Chillaxed tonight.

Y in the morning tomorrow, then some chores, then out to watch Bucky beat up dck's Gophers for the Axe.

Sunday WW meeting, church, then more football.

Gonna be cold here. Hope I survive!


Fidelity isn't a's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09

Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Threw my back out last weekend and been nursing it all week. Hoping it is ok enough tomorrow to pack for a spur of the moment trip across the country to AZ on Monday to spend the holiday week with XWH's cousins (I got 'em in the divorce!!)

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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, November 22nd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HiTesla! I sent you a Christmas card.

I am so excited to be going to Florida on Sunday to spend a week with my family.

I am bound to X-Npd until this summer and then I am free from ties to him when we sell the home. But I must admit I am thankful my lawyer handed him his azz on a platter and made him pay through the nose which allowed my kids to keep their home, even though it was hard on me.

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My weekend has finally started this morning as I work till 12:30am. I've finally rejoined the Y and am very excited to be going back to yoga classes. My first is this morning at 11.

After that, who knows? It's supposed to be cold and blustery this weekend with snow flurries. I have wine, sherry & beer. Lots of yarn and fabric. I may actually get something accomplished this weekend

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, November 23rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Friday I was teaching, then a nice walk through San Francisco at 69 degrees. Then a downer running into xSO and girlfriend at a local bar. Changed scenery to a restaurant with a beautiful view of the Pacific Ocean and a great piano player. Ended up being invited to a private Christmas party at the restaurant and spent the rest of the evening with my best friend and our musician friend who has played with all the greats in the world and has a lot of stories to tell.

Today, shopping for Christmas cards for SI and trying to get them all written. DD16 will come home tonight and we will got a banquet together to formally end her water polo season.

Tomorrow, going to a new church that I have been wanting to go to for the longest time. Then, if the weather stays nice a drink on the patio of a Peruvian restaurant right on the beach with a new friend. Northern Cali in November can be total paradise.

And then, three more days and I will head out to Kauai for Thanksgiving.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1322 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
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