One thing that's been very strange and a little bit hard is to be evasive, in the name of self-protection.
I was raised, above all else, never, ever to lie. to omit, to deceive in any way was big trouble.
In this new vortex that I've been thrust into-the world of divorce-it is imperative that I play my cards close at hand. There are spies out there disguised as friends and it's not easy to figure out who is who, so being evasive seems best, at present.
I'm also learning the same when having to have any contact with Perv and it's been a feat and a half. But I did it. Answered questions with words that have no meaning. Or gave run around answers like he did/does.
It wasn't met with a very positive reaction, but hey...them's the breaks.
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.