I need to smack some sense into myself.
I don't do Facebook. At all. Not my thing. But OW does, so I crept it hard. And there's a ton of her wedding photos on there.
Tonight I looked at them and saw the look on her XBH's face. He looked so happy.
And six or so months later my WH went and ruined that man's life. With the full participation of OW of course, but...
It's a new pain to think that the man I thought so highly of would so thoughtlessly hurt this random guy who did nothing wrong besides marrying a thoughtless woman.
Since her XBH found out about the A some time ago I haven't reached out to him. I don't know how to do so, but I think about it. I want to know when he found out, I want to know how OW convinced him not to confront me or my WH, I want to tell him I'm so sorry for the pain my WH caused.
But on the other hand, is there really anything to say at all? I think I just need to forget that any of these people exist.