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User Topic: Being very, extremely, terribly petty, but can't help it..
Spelljean
♀ 35624
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 2:11 AM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, every now and again I look at pics of OW...never noticed she has a fang hanging out of one side of her mouth and also, she is nearly cross-eyed.

Which, on a person of kindness and decency, who cares. But on her, fitting.

Sorry for the mini vent. Just needed a very little moment.


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Ostrich80
34827
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 2:58 AM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahh its the little things sometimes isn't it. After viewing ow pix a gajillion times, one day I zoomed in and saw very neglected eyebrows. I don't know why but it made me feel good. I happen to possess a pair of really nice ones....it made me smile.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5279 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Spelljean
♀ 35624
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 3:46 AM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, the zoom in! Done that too.

That was the last look at OW I am allowing myself. Putting one piece at a time to rest here. So goodbye to big nose, cross-eyed snaggle tooth. We had some good laughs.


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
Vulcanized
♀ 33523
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 4:16 AM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now: bitch, be gone!


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
-----------------------------------------------------------
Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 784 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Hrtbrken1
♀ 33802
Member # 33802
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does she happen to be a cat? Because that's what it sounds like


Me-BW
Him-WH
Together 16 years, married 10.
DDay 07/26/2011, 8 month EA/PA with friend of our family. Months of TT.
DDay#2 Early spring 2012, confirmed EA with another woman.

Posts: 144 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Sunny South
Dyinghere
♀ 41313
Member # 41313
Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I see eyebrows that are so overly waxed and plucked that she looks totally unnatural!! Plus, she brushes her teeth in the shower and spits on the shower floor. Nasty.

[This message edited by Dyinghere at 11:07 PM, November 24th (Sunday)]


Posts: 165 | Registered: Nov 2013
Lovedyoumore
♀ 35593
Member # 35593
Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pointed out a very obvious physical anomaly of the OW to my H. He said he never noticed it until I showed him. What? He was with her for 9 months, 3 of which they played house, and he never saw it. Blind, they are.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1611 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
purplejacket4
♀ 34262
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, November 24th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crooked teeth and bird's nest hair.

I have very straight teeth (braces) and a smart short haircut.

So there!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2361 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Kiddingmyself
♀ 33013
Member # 33013
Default  Posted: 5:43 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Plus, she brushes her teeth in the shower and spits on the shower floor. Nasty.

Hey now, I do that. It's actually much cleaner than constantly washing toothpaste residue out of the sink. Of course, I don't do it while sleeping with other women's husbands...so that could be the deciding factor.


WH on DDay 2: "I should just work and shut up. My happiness doesn't matter."

Posts: 182 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Ohio
bionicgal
♀ 39803
Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha, Kiddingmyself.
I have never contemplated brushing my teeth in the shower, either while cheating or not!


me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

Posts: 2247 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
cancuncrushed
♀ 28156
Member # 28156
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW posted that her own dog bit her in the face. Priceless. She has owned it for years.

[This message edited by cancuncrushed at 9:06 AM, November 25th (Monday)]


a trigger yesterday

Posts: 1113 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: athome
Spelljean
♀ 35624
Member # 35624
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As long as she doesn't pee in the shower!


WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

Posts: 903 | Registered: May 2012 | From: California
TennisTC
♀ 41330
Member # 41330
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OW posted that her own dog bit her in the face.
^^^^^ OMG. It's pretty bad when your own dog doesn't like you!!! So much for man's best friend.


Me: BW Him: WH (Both early 30's)
Married 11 years with a DD7
DDay: 2-24-13
R'ing

Posts: 167 | Registered: Nov 2013
Gotmegood
♀ 41407
Member # 41407
Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh you lucky lucky people dealing with real OP! (Kidding). I zoom in too.....on a 20 yr old boob-jobbed, flat stomach, tan all over, sexily posed, flat bellied, prostitute. Maybe if I could SEE its venereal disease.......


Me: faithful wife 62.
Him: WH 64 , prostitute 20 yr old
DDay: 8-13-2013
Status: boinging up and down like a yo-yo

Posts: 549 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Florida
TheThreeYearFool
♀ 41218
Member # 41218
Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the one hand, regarding OW: spa facials, regular shellac mani-pedis, Brazilian waxes, expensive blonde hair, hair extensions in addition to regular blowouts, ridiculously expensive clothes. I can't compete with that.

On the other hand: Fat when the A started and just kept getting fatter (as did my WH). I didn't know BCBG Max Azria even went up to those sizes.

In one old text she claimed to be a Banana Republic size Medium. I know BR are the kings of vanity sizing, but uh, no.


Me - BW 36
Him - WH 41
Together 12 years, married 7
3 year LTA with former coworker
DDay 10/29/13
He says he wants to R... can I live with what he's done?

Posts: 165 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: United States
Dyinghere
♀ 41313
Member # 41313
Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry KiddingMyself. The real problem was that she wasn't alone in the shower. Nothing personal to you, my dear!

Posts: 165 | Registered: Nov 2013
NewCompass
♂ 41319
Member # 41319
Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOW ! Am I the only guy to post in here? Is this a "girl" subject? Because I did the same thing years ago to my W's OM. I wondered for a long time... what does he have that I don't. Turns out, I am much better looking, physique is superior, and yes ladies, I have a good package. So, It must have been the thrill of the "catch" ??


Me (FWS) 56
W - 54
D Day - 12/12
Married 29 years
3 children / 2 college grads

Posts: 5 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Savannah, GA
RippedSoul
♀ 40055
Member # 40055
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I find my WH better looking than OW's BH, but BH definitely has a better physique and he's not ugly. So who knows what attracts waywards to each other? I've been losing weight since before d-day, but even then, he doubled my weight. Now, he might be three times my size?

As for her, she has manure-colored hair. It brings me great joy!


BW: 49; SLAWH: 46; M: 23 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute #1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (AP, escorts #1 & #2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 20; DD: 18; DS: 16; DS: 14
PS: I've NEVER NOT edited my posts

Posts: 481 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
coping2010
♀ 28328
Member # 28328
Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ocassionally check out the OWs FB page; she has no upper lip and bad teeth. Also, as I told exWH, I am much smarter and prettier than her and obviously from better breeding stock because I have good looking children and she does not. Her sons look like Chris from the Family Guy. WHich is not fair to her kids, they are blameless in this whole mess, but I like the zings at her.... And I just found out her math is bad also. She said "for the 3 1/2 years we have been together". Um, our divorce wasn't final until 3 years ago and you were screwing him at least 5 years ago, so.......


BS - Me, 45, WS - Him, 45
Married 22 years
2 sons, 21 and 18
DDay 4/9/2010, the rest 4/16/2010, R - 4/17/10
9/6/10 - He moved out.
9/23/10 - filed for divorce
11/5/10 - divorce final.

Posts: 143 | Registered: Apr 2010
whiteflower99
♀ 13937
Member # 13937
Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Got me good... Photoshop is a wondrous thing...
And you aren't alone.


What are you pretending not to know?

me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.


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