http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=514566
Reading those replies from seasoned SIers made it all clear. We thought we'd blown our chance yesterday when my H declined a position. A quick phone call later revealed the job had not yet been offered to the other applicant, and was his if he wanted it. He accepted, and this time, I'm at peace.
We're moving on!!
Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.
Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
I had read your earlier thread and agreed with the members advising you to get out of the school/job, whatever. I am so glad that their responses to your post got you to rethink what you and your H were doing.
I am glad that you're at peace. Just think, no more having to deal with OW. Woot woot!
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson "She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
Me: BW 35 Crazz: WH 33 Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16
In following your story, I, too, thought moving would be better for you and your H.
We will be moving to another state as soon as our house sells. It is scary to leave your home town, but we need a fresh place that is not tainted. My H already is working there and out of a home office.
Good luck and I hope the excitement transcends every part of your life.
I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.
6 months post Dday we packed up and moved out; moved 1600 miles away. Best move we ever made. Instantly eliminated many, many triggers. It made R, and my life, easer.
Good luck to you.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
