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Lostinthismess posted 11/25/2013 01:07 AM

It doesn't matter how small, the TT is like a knife to the heart. I can't do anymore. All of a sudden the little fact that I said didn't fit, didn't make sense, that he swore all along was nothing was friggin something! I can't do it. It means everything to me. He's nothing to me right now less than that if possible. I knew I couldn't trust him. Every half truth just proves it

headdesk posted 11/25/2013 01:10 AM

So sorry. The TT (and outward lies) were the worst of it for me. I am so sorry you're getting the run around. Are you wanting to give 'one last chance' to come clean or just that's it, you're done?

Take care of yourself. Lawyer up. (((mess)))

markyall posted 11/25/2013 09:43 AM

The TT is still ruining me. I don't think there is a "come clean" option, not completely, don't know if it is fear, guilt, shame or maybe even compassion that holds it back but it has made it that even at the most sincere moments I'll never trust there is not more
Good Luck

Lostinthismess posted 11/25/2013 10:01 AM

He said 'more truth' and I got tunnel vision. All I could hear was the blood in my ears. I just can't keep going through this. I was doing good. I was calmer. I had gained 5 lbs back. Now I have the stabbing stomach pains again. I'm just not cut out for this.