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bobf posted 11/25/2013 07:00 AM

I have had responses to some of the things I posted about my wife's behavior and her OEA partner answered by things like, "see pg 42 of the cheater's manual".

I assumed this is sarcasm, but is there really some form of cheater's manual that someone published elsewhere?

If there is, I wonder if I should go look at it to find out what other things my wife or OEA partner might of done...

jjct posted 11/25/2013 07:07 AM

Ha! My fault bob - for sending you on a search...
We hear the same stuff over and over - thousands of times, so we jokingly refer to a manual...
The '42' was a reference to 'the answer to everything'...

Lovedyoumore posted 11/25/2013 09:06 AM

I have often referred to the "lists" given in a very prominent women's magazine and their website as a cheater manual for seduction by OW. I read one to my H the first time he "got it" concerning how he was duped into thinking it was the real thing. It was a sequential list on how to get a man into your bed. Sickening to see how he fell for every. single. line.

The cheater manual comments are sarcastic because most A follow a common script with maybe only 3 different scenarios. The commonness of it all makes it so ridiculous when it happens because all WS and AP think they are so special.

Sleepy312 posted 11/25/2013 09:14 AM

@lovedyoumore...where can I find this list?

again after 7 years H blamed me for the affair.

sisoon posted 11/25/2013 11:40 AM

I've seen books advertised telling people how to cheat. Not so strangely, I can't cite any. (Usually, in a thread like this, I'd attempt to track down references, but I'm not gonna do that here.)

You don't need a book, though - just listen to what your WS says. It's all been said before. For examples, just turn on your TV....

Lovedyoumore posted 11/25/2013 13:01 PM

Sleepy, look for pm

bufffalo posted 11/25/2013 13:10 PM

My favorite "from the cheaters manual".....ILYBINILWY...

I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You

yeah...heard that shit....

Standard line too....


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