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Topic: Inspirational Reading To Help Heal?

MsRukia
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Posted: 10:44 PM, November 25th (Monday), 2013

Not sure where to post this. Have any of you read any books that have helped you a long the reconciliation path? Something that helped you heal? Any recommendations would be awesome. I'll also check out the book list again.

BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 177 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs

forgivingnow
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Posted: 4:56 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013

The Seven Levels of Intimacy by Matthew Kelly. We both read it. Highly recommend. Talks about making choices that make you a better person, making choices that are good for the relationship. You don't hope for a better relationship, you decide, you design it, you put the relationship first.
Take care

Me-BS 52
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 648 | Registered: Oct 2011

Jrazz
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Posted: 5:04 PM, November 26th (Tuesday), 2013

"Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage" by Gary Neuman was one that helped us a lot.

Granted, I was a little put off by the title at first pass. I don't think that anything is 100% disaster proof, but his advice and message helped us gain better perspective.

If you're looking for personal healing, I highly recommend anything by Pema Chodron. "When Things Fall Apart" is an excellent start.

"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 20779 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

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