I want to wake up now.
I hate OM, too.
Having said that, please focus on your WH. It's hard for me to accept it, too, but that's the constructive thing to do.
Good luck and stay strong.
I know this is such a difficult time for you, (((((plainpain))))).
You are not alone.
I just send you hugs. You did not deserve any of this.
I thought I had stopped pretending. I was wrong.
Me- BS 41
Him- WS 38 and STBX
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2: EA w/CoW, 06-15-2017
Who cares that she sent him pictures of her vajayjay. Who cares that she persisted and persisted until he finally gave in. Who cares that she brought this whole thing on herself on purpose, knowing full well that he was married and happy in his marriage. Who cares that she told him she couldn't get pregnant. Who cares that she offered to have an abortion, and he begged her not to. Who cares that he will spend the next 18-20 years paying for his mistake financially. Who cares that it is going to take everything we have to find a way through this as a couple and as a family.
None of that matters. He's an old married man who knocked up a 22 year old - used her and then abandoned her. That's the story.
[This message edited by plainpain at 6:33 PM, November 26th (Tuesday)]
With regards to OW, FTG (FeckThatGirl)
eta: did you forward the pics of her vajayjay to her parents? At least it would help them realize your H is not the bad guy, he was chased hard before he decided to stop running.
[This message edited by HurtButHopeful? at 6:51 PM, November 26th (Tuesday)]
You are certainly better than me as I am keeping all their texts, and other messages. Not only for OC but for my 2DD as well. Two liars are not going to tell this story. I will!
Sometimes I just want to lay down and die.
Your anger is very understandable. I have it too.
But I respect that you come her and vent, but don't allow the situation to change who you are.
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Hugs to you.
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.