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rsm46 (original poster member #34957) posted at 11:33 PM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2013
It's been so long since I've posted here. I never thought I'd get to this place!
I was asked to move out last September. We officially divorced in January this year. I never thought I'd be happy again or survive on my own, yet here I am...
It's the holiday season, so I get a little sentimental this time of year. I've been able to reflect upon what's happened, what I have done and I've continued to heal. I know that I've made my poor choices but I have stopped letting those choices be who I am, and have instead, learned from them so that I can be the better person I know I am.
And dare I say it? I'm happy! and I don't feel guilty about it. My days of guilt and self hate are over. I feel more like my old self everyday. I don't feel as though I need someone to make me happy. I can make myself happy, whether it's with or without someone. While the D wasn't easy, I got through it and I look forward to every day and look at it as an opportunity to do something better.
I'm glad I can post here, because a new beginning is exactly what I needed and I'm taking advantage of it every day.
With that being said, I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday that's filled with lots of love and laughter!
Happy days are here again:)
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 11:40 PM on Tuesday, November 26th, 2013
Welcome. New beginnings is a great place to be. 
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
rsm46 (original poster member #34957) posted at 12:33 AM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2013
Thanks! SI has helped me through so much in the past. It feels great to be able to post something positive!
Happy days are here again:)
Ann124 ( member #29289) posted at 12:43 PM on Wednesday, November 27th, 2013
rsm
I wish you the best in your New Beginnings ...
And the best Holiday Season ever!
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