Married 10 years, together for 14
Trying to get the strength to do what is right for me and my kids.
Also tells me I threw away the most faithful person I will ever have, and this is my fault since I told some of our friends.
Do I confront him with this information or continue the 180 so that I can move forward with my life?
ETA: Do what you can when you can. Just remember that if he is still in the A then he is still going to lie to you. That's what unremorseful spouses do. So take care of yourself. It's still early for you in the process so do what you can right now to take care of you. Take care of yourself and don't take his bullshit.
[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 8:44 PM, November 26th (Tuesday)]
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.
You need to talk with a lawyer to find out your rights and establish some boundaries, legal ones, that will bring some order out of the chaos WH has created and wants to continue.
You don't have to get a D right now, but you can begin to get some peace and control over your own life.
Do this for you and your children.