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Im 18 mo out and we are in R. I would say everything is going really well. Last night I was on Facebook and decided to look up ow husbands pg. it's set to private but I could see he removed her pic and changed his status to separated. I instantly got sick. I don't know why but it's really bothering me. I never told her bs because the are gun fanatics, and he had PTSD from just returning from his second deployment. I worried for my familys safety. I feel like she took part in ruining my life and had no consequences. From what FWH has said she seemed to hate her h. So why do I care? I wish I could remove her from my head!

I know the feeling and it seems like the littlest things can be triggers and bring so much emotion back. I hate that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach. I also loath the idea that the OP "gets away" with it so to speak, while we are here working harder than ever to pick up the pieces of our lives. Karma works in mysterious ways though.

I really hope karma exists :)

It does. Sometimes we don't see it, but it will happen. Maybe not Karma, but sooner or later her pattern of piss poor choices will come back to bite her in the @$$.
Or, sooner or later she will mess with cray cray's husband and gett the @$$ whooping of a lifetime!

The OW in my case was in another affair and had left her husband less than 12 months after my husband ended their affair. She was just looking for anyone and it obviously didn't matter who--again, a glaring example of the fact that people stay broken unless they work really hard to change. She obviously did't do any work on herself and continued on in the same behavior pattern and I know without a doubt she will be a very unhappy woman until she works on herself no matter who is filling the void for her. It's only a matter of if, not when her life will implode and same for the OW in your case.