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Helen of Troy posted 11/27/2013 10:14 AM

Just in case anyone had ANY DOUBTS as to the fuckedupedness regarding my last post in this forum, here is small penis' reply to my request for address where girls will be during his timesharing:

"I have not made an itinerary as of yet but the girls will be either in <central town> or <town in state north of here>. I will let you know more as plans are confirmed but treat this as your notice they will be going to <northern state> for part of their visit. I am sure you already have both addresses at both locations. Also as a heads up if <teen1> does not agree to the rules then plans for her may change. I was giving you an opportunity to confirm her willingness to comply but since you do not wish to do so you will have to wait to find out.
<FUCKTARD>. "

I mean what is he going to do, dump her on the side of the road somewhere?
What if I am not home and teen1 "acts up"?
Does anyone still not get what I deal with here?

PurpleRose posted 11/27/2013 10:17 AM

Gosh it must be so nice to be able to choose if you want to parent your child or not - depending on her compliance!

What a prick.

I get it- I'm dealing with a "father" from the same line of lower muppets.

Helen of Troy posted 11/27/2013 10:21 AM


In other words it WILL BE MY FAULT yet again.
He feels it is my responsibility to assure teen1 that she won't act up while with dad at his folks or ow's folks. The only reason she would "act up" would be if FOW/NW starts in on negativity about me and teen1 sticks up for me because it hurts her feelings. Yes I have asked fucktard to please request she stop doing this in front of the kids and he told me FOW/NW has freedom of speech and stop being bossy and controlling. Ok her "freedom of speech" is apparently more important than the mental health of a child. Since I didn't "comply" to small penis' orders by confirming with teen1 I am now being punished. He's a fucking terrorist. I wish he would go play in traffic.

GabyBaby posted 11/27/2013 10:22 AM

Can you keep your kids home or do they have to go per a custody/visitation decree?

XWH sounds like a complete and total douche and I'm sorry you and your kids have to deal with this nonsense.

Dreamboat posted 11/27/2013 10:42 AM

Hi email pisses me off. This is how I would respond.

Dear fucktard,

As I said before, I have no authority in your home or when you have visitation with your children. It is YOUR responsibility as a parent to communicate your expectations to the children and then to enforce your rules. If you are unwilling or unable to parent your own children then perhaps you should reconsider taking visitation with them.

I need to know the dates you will be in x and y so I know how to contact you and the children in case of an emergency. Please provide that information no later than Dec xx.

PurpleRose posted 11/27/2013 11:08 AM

Is he saying they cannot come with him if they don't agree to the "rules"??

Pass posted 11/27/2013 11:52 AM

What an asshat! Time with a parent isn't conditional upon behaviour. What's wrong with all of us fools who actually keep our kids around when they're misbehaving?

Undefinabl3 posted 11/27/2013 13:19 PM

"I have not made an itinerary as of yet but the girls will be either in <central town> or <town in state north of here>. I will let you know more as plans are confirmed but treat this as your notice they will be going to <northern state> for part of their visit. I am sure you already have both addresses at both locations. Also as a heads up if <teen1> does not agree to the rules then plans for her may change. I was giving you an opportunity to confirm her willingness to comply but since you do not wish to do so you will have to wait to find out.
<FUCKTARD>. "

Uggg....

More like "Look jackass, your rules are your rules and that is fine, but you children are not things you can just toss away when they act up. If you can't handle the responsiblities of being a parent, then perhaps the children should just stay with me so that they dont piss you off."

Like I said, his rules are not bad, they are good solid responsible rules for kids.

However, his inability to tone his shitheadedness down is irking me. Poor kids.

SBB posted 11/27/2013 13:23 PM

He's a fucking terrorist. I wish he would go play in traffic.

Has Teen 2 agreed?

That is just so awful. Ironic that a guy with zero integrity or honour is trying to dictate appropriate behaviour to two teenagers.

I hate this guy Helen. I'm so sorry.

StillLivin posted 11/27/2013 14:40 PM

He is trying to control everything again because he is an impotent f...tard.
Simple.
Please make sure your Teens have enough money for a taxi and their cell phones on them at all times in case they have to call you.

Maybe send an email that doesn't feed into his demands.

F...tard,
Let me know when you have the itinerary and when p/u and d/o times will be.
I trust all will enjoy the holidays!
Helen of Troy

gonnabe2016 posted 11/27/2013 15:48 PM

here is small penis' reply

*snort*


What's wrong with all of us fools who actually keep our kids around when they're misbehaving?

I know, right?


if <teen1> does not agree to the rules then plans for her may change

What.a.Dick.


I was giving you an opportunity to confirm her willingness to comply but since you do not wish to do so you will have to wait to find out.

What the fuck is wrong with this guy????

This almost makes me wish that you had replied to his original email with: "I gave <teen1> your list of rules and she rolled her eyes and said *What.Ever*".......

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