X has gone away for the last 3 Christmases with MOW(fiancee now).
I found out last Thursday in a phone conversation that he is leaving on Dec. 18th. During that phone conversation he let me know that his parents were in town for the weekend and they wanted to see the kids. I said that it's good they were here now because the upcoming weekends are really busy and the only free day we had was Sunday Nov. 24th.
After their activities on Sunday we hung around the house thinking that his parents would call to come over. Nope. No calls and X had been NC with the kids since Friday night.
Until last night.
DA X called.
He said he wanted to take the kids to the cottage this weekend to see the snow and maybe get their ski equipment.
I TOLD YOU LAST WEEK (just 5 days ago) THAT WE WERE BUSY BUSY BUSY FOR THE MONTH OF DECEMBER.
Unbelievable. He just does not listen. I told him that LAST WEEKEND was the last free time they had until XMAS. Holy shit what an asshole.
He hemmed and hawed and tried to wheedle out a time. They have birthday parties, XMAS parties, a karate grad, piano recital, hockey games, a play that I bought tickets for, it's also my birthday the day before he leaves so my "party" is scheduled for the sunday before etc. etc.
I TOLD HIM. He doesn't listen.
He also wanted to take them to Frozen tonight and I told him I wanted to see it too but we couldn't go tonight because we have a dental appointment.
It's not like he wasn't warned. He just doesn't choose to hear what I say.
It infuriates me. I told him also that it was not so long ago that he was part of all these plans and he should remember how busy the month of December gets with their schedule.
Holy fucking shit what an entitled idiot.
He said that they won't ski until next year then and I said, "well who's fault is that?" He said, "I guess mine."
Dumb ass fucktard asshole. How is this my fault? How do you blame me for this as well?
Don't want to deal with this anymore.
I'm just so angry that I actually told him we were busy and he just disregarded that information. He only told me 5 days ago that he was leaving on the 18th. Does he think I filled their schedule in that time so that he doesn't get to see them before he goes? That stuff has been scheduled since shortly after Halloween.
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 11:49 AM, November 27th (Wednesday)]