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nowiknow23 posted 11/27/2013 11:49 AM

***Posting as a member***

Just wanted to post a gentle nudge - when the holidays arrive, the newer members in JFO, General, Recon, Wayward, ICR, and D/S could really use a little extra support from those of us who are farther down the road.

If you are able, please consider shining a little light on their paths? Even a simple hug here and there can make a huge difference.

Happy Holidays, NB peeps!

lieshurt posted 11/27/2013 12:15 PM

Great reminder NIK.

Happy Holidays to you as well

tryinghard2013 posted 11/27/2013 12:34 PM

You are right ive been very lax only reading but I want to help the new members I know how helpful this place has been for me and I will be more active in helping.

nowiknow23 posted 11/27/2013 13:46 PM

No judgement intended in my post AT ALL. I hope it came across right.

It's ok if you aren't in a place where you can help out right now. Holidays are hard for everyone, even us rock star NBers.

It's all good.

miadianna posted 11/27/2013 13:49 PM

Thanks for the reminder.

caregiver9000 posted 11/27/2013 14:00 PM

I want to add that sometimes there is healing in helping others.

But I know there were plenty of times when I just couldn't. And that SI was here for me in those times.

Happy holidays to you NIK.

StillLivin posted 11/27/2013 14:18 PM


Roger and WILCO!
Over.

nowiknow23 posted 11/27/2013 14:21 PM

I want to add that sometimes there is healing in helping others.

But I know there were plenty of times when I just couldn't. And that SI was here for me in those times.

WORD. So much truth, cg. My healing has been tremendously aided by reaching out to others.

And there were times (and occasionally still are) that I just couldn't. SI is there for us all. And we are all SI.

PhoenixRisen posted 11/27/2013 16:44 PM

will do
&
wow!... this makes me realize how far I've come along.
A couple of years ago I was in JFO, then D/S and hung on every word posted by those further along to give me comfort that things would get better.
and now....
well, it's like the circle is completing itself (and that in itself is further healing for me)

nowiknow23 posted 11/27/2013 16:45 PM

better4me posted 11/27/2013 22:42 PM

thanks for the "nudge", NIK. Will do so!

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