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feelingfoolish posted 11/27/2013 14:11 PM

I didn't recognize the name and went to click on "Deny" but hit the 'Message" button instead.
Pictures of the OW and WH popped up. The picture was from back in the summer.


I can't do this any longer. Me and WH are in R or maybe we're not.. I don't want to live with this shit the rest of my life. How will i ever get this sick feeling to go away if OW won't go away?

I am feeling very frustrated.

Skan posted 11/27/2013 14:23 PM

Well, before you unfriend her, do be sure to comment about how nice the OW looks after her intensive STD treatments and how happy you are that the open sores on her face have now closed up.

Or you can do the healthy thing and just unfriend and block her ho-friend.

feelingfoolish posted 11/27/2013 14:29 PM

I did deny the friend request. Hate that I did that because now i can't see the picture. It was my intention to show it to WH .

It sucks taking the 'high road'!!! I so badly want to act like a real crazy woman. It's getting difficult to continue to do the right thing.

Please talk some sense into me becuz right now I am feeling the urge to lower myself to her level.

And that level, my friends, is quite low.

[This message edited by feelingfoolish at 2:32 PM, November 27th (Wednesday)]

Eudaimonia posted 11/27/2013 14:37 PM

I believe that THAT is what the people on NPD boards refer to as their "flying monkeys."

And then I noticed where your profile says you are from. ((((feelingfoolish))))

Dear lawdy, what is WRONG with these people???!!!

MOTG posted 11/27/2013 15:42 PM

What if OW friend doesn't know all the details and was trying to do the right thing? I know it would still make me sick but maybe she was having a moment on conscience and wanted to let the truth be known?

sullymeishadomi posted 11/27/2013 16:24 PM

The goal is to make you feel bad. Its stupid and childish. When I was filing some court documents a couple years ago, the person behind the counter once worked with kids. She said boys duke it out and that is it; its over. Girls give each other eating disorders. If you so much as look her way, she wont stop. If you want her to go away ignore. Remember what they say about kids and negative attention: it attention, period.

painfulpast posted 11/27/2013 16:29 PM

So this is how she and her friends get their kicks? By sending you pictures like that? Where do these morons get their ideas from?

Why isn't she embarrassed? Honestly, why isn't she thinking "Wow, he said he didn't like his wife and he cheated on her, and yet he's with her, and here I am, alone and still thinking about him." What a bitch she is.

Unless you have a very tall ladder to climb back up, don't bother with them. Block, block, block.

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