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 damncutekitty (original poster member #5929) posted at 2:55 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

http://www.betabrand.com/collections/west-coast-workwear/black-dress-pant-sweatpants.html?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Lookalike_Similar&utm_campaign=DressPantsSweatpants&nan_pid=1061911718&NAN_PID=1061911718

I know the photo makes them look like they are really nice pants. But they are sweatpants. This is the dude version of the pajama jean, and is an abomination.

As an aside, seeing the photo of these pants made me think of a thread here a few years ago where me and some other NB ladies tried to explain to the guys that jeans and white athletic sneakers were not date attire. LOL

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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LeopoldB ( member #40606) posted at 3:22 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

They look nice. I'll try a pair and let you know.

Thanks for the post.

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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 4:40 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

at $86.50 they are a real steal! Yikes!

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:42 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

I very seldom ever made a comment on what EX wore. But one day he had dress sweats on and thought I would appear in public with him in a fancy setting. I had to draw the line and say HELL NO. Considering the wrath I knew I would draw down on myself, I still did it anyway.

A girl's gotta have standards.

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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 5:08 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

Those are fucking awesome! If only I weren't so damn cheap.

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BrokenPieces ( member #7685) posted at 6:44 AM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

So, are you saying pajama jeans aren't ok?

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gardenparty ( member #12050) posted at 3:17 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

Too funny. One of my friends made it a point to never date somebody who went out in the evening wearing running shoes. That was definitely her minimum standard of attire. My SO lives in jeans, ball cap and running shoes but even I would draw the line at sweat pants.

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wontdefineme ( member #31421) posted at 3:23 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

With the right shoes and shirt, they look good. I guess it depends on your body type and age. Skinny young things could pull it off, older mature gentlemen probably shouldn't try.

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 damncutekitty (original poster member #5929) posted at 4:56 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

So, are you saying pajama jeans aren't ok?

To wear grocery shopping, sure. To wear on date? Only at a tractor pull.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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 damncutekitty (original poster member #5929) posted at 4:59 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

I admit I have lived the last decade in a city where people tend to dress nicer. Even to run errands.

I live in a suburb now and people wear sweatpants/yoga pants everywhere. Until this year I would never have dreamed of wearing workout clothes to the grocery store. It's so weird! I am less than 5 miles from my old neighborhood and it's like another planet.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

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redvixen ( member #15259) posted at 5:24 PM on Thursday, November 28th, 2013

I don't mind sweat pants on occasion. But I did date a guy (briefly) who I only ever saw in sweats - both "dress" sweats and regular. I don't even know if he owned anything else. :/

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LineInTheSand ( member #20399) posted at 12:26 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2013

As long as the guy's in shape, I wouldn't have a problem with these pants.

However, if he shows up wearing socks and sandals, we have a problem!

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:34 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2013

These really don't bother me, but I'm in Austin, and we're pretty laid back with regard to fashion...lol. I like to dress up on occasion, but I never feel that I MUST dress up. I wear my black yoga pants as leggings with boots all the time, and no one notices...lol.

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missherlots ( member #30591) posted at 7:54 AM on Friday, November 29th, 2013

these pants will serve me for meditation and work the same day,.

In the long run, I woudl save money.

I just hope these are wrinkle free!

my two cents.

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Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 2:03 AM on Sunday, December 1st, 2013

86 bucks for a pair of sweats!! Holy crap!

Oh man, those are hilarious! The guy in the ad is really rockin' them, too.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:39 PM on Sunday, December 1st, 2013

Until this year I would never have dreamed of wearing workout clothes to the grocery store.

Workout clothes are one thing. What I can't handle is people wearing pajamas in public.

I live in a college town, but still! Fleece pants covered in cartoon characters = pjs. NOT street clothes.

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