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User Topic: Horrible coincidence...
♀ 20082
Member # 20082
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I usually post in general...but WH has left the house, essentially abandoned me and DD, doesn't speak to me, he's seen a lawyer, and, seriously, it's over, so I may as well ease my bruised ego on in here and say Hi!!

Sooooooo...WH moved out on the 18th. He SAID that he is staying at his boss's house, which didn't really make a lot of sense, seeing as how I thought his boss had moved to another state...but whatever, I didn't give it too much thought, since it doesn't really matter where WH is, he's still an asshat.

Because WH's an asshat, and I cant afford to stay in the amazingly beautiful house I effing designed for us to grow old and die in, I've been hunting for houses online in the same area that we live in (so that DD doesn't have to change schools). I managed to find one not too far from where our current house is. It wasn't the prettiest house, but it was in my price range (i.e. it was cheap) so I decided to do a drive by...imagine my surprise when I drove up to the house and found WH's car in the freaking driveway!!!!

Apparently WH is living in his boss's OLD bachelor pad that has yet to sell...I'm so tempted to contact a realtor so I can get a tour of his empty abode...furnished with (I assume) nothing other than the bed he stole from the guest bedroom.

Seriously...What an asshat.

Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house, fun, fun.

Posts: 474 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: AL
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What the heck?!?

Welcome to D/S, lisaloo. This is a fabulous and fierce group. We've got your back.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 40231 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 33129
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Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well that is a coincidence. :/

I'm sorry you are here, but stick around because we are a very supportive bunch.

Soooo.. Did you call the realtor yet?

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

Posts: 3870 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, November 27th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Look on the bright side, if you sell your house and buy the bachelor pad, WH won't have a free place to live.

edit to correct my typos, they drive me nuts.

[This message edited by Gemini71 at 11:09 PM, November 27th (Wednesday)]

One day
I'm gonna forget your name,
And one sweet day,
you're gonna drown in my lost pain. - "Sweet Sacrifice" by Evanescence

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3391 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
♀ 33523
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd set up a tour & perhaps leave him an upper-decker. But I'm an evil bitch, so ...

Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now: happy in life, happily in love with the RIGHT man -----> Everything is as it should be

Posts: 940 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: The Hostile City
♀ 41433
Member # 41433
Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, November 28th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy crap, that's crazy.

He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private even happens to us.

Posts: 354 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Canada
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