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I wake up to someone knocking on my door . it was army. he was a wreck. he was at training for the past few weeks and was suppose to be there for another day but they finished ahead of schedule. he drove all night to surprise his wife.
he walked in and found.her in bed with.the base play boy.
He left and had no where to go. so he came over here.
i calmed him down enough to get him to agree to go to the hospital and get admitted cause he said he was thinking of ending his life. I called. his command and some.of his.friends and let them know what was going on his people are withi hate.to say.it.but i told him so. i asked him where his kids are.and they are.with the grandparents a few.states away. him now figuring out what.to.do.

Eyenight - You did the right thing getting him to the hospital and then notifying his people.

I know you care about him, but please tell me you won't let yourself get pulled into his mess?

100% agree with Nik. Don't get sucked in. He's a big boy and you do NOT need his drama.

Nope just made the calls i let the hospital know he was coming and had his people deal with it. i do work tonight. So the likelyhood of me having to care.for him is pretty high. but ill talk to the.nurse in charge. about the.situation. i want to stay out of it. i do feel bad for him. but at least he's safe. his people are over talking to his wife and trying to track down the playboy. I told them not to tell her where he is. It will only make this thing worse. hopefully they listen

Good for you, hon.

You did the right thing - and keeping your distance now makes sense. Good for you.