When will I know if I am doing enough?
My WS has gone quiet again. I ask - 'Have I done something wrong'? She says 'No, its just that you have done nothing'.
So I don't know what more I can do. I ask her but she doesn't even know. She can't tell me.
This is what I am doing.
Seeing two IC's
Reading book after book about relationships and about affair recovery.
Taking WS on dates.
Doing the things that she has identified as being love bank deposits.
Keeping within all boundaries.
Doing things that hopefully address her fears.
I am trying to be as humanly consistent as possible in all of the above.