D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010
Will she b mad at me forever?
No! Don't blame yourself! You didn't do this, he did.
Should I have him say goodbye?
Personally, I would NOT.
I just don't want him to blame me bc he does. He says I'm turning my back on him!
Wait, he says that YOU, are turning you back on HIM, because you wouldn't accept his CL trolling? Is he for real? Are you fucking kidding me? He's delusional.
We tried for a year.
After the first CL ad, most people would have been GONE.
Is that selfish of me?
Wait....let me get this straight, HE had affairs on craigslist, YOU took him back, HE continued the behavior, and YOU are worried if YOUR daughter, not even HIS, will be mad at YOU? And then you are asking if YOU are selfish?
Honey, it's blaringly obvious who is the selfish one here. Please stop blaming yourself for this. HE is broken, fucked up individual. He cannot be fixed by you or by anyone. He's fucked in the head. Seriously. You are dodging a bullet here.
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.