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soveryweary posted 11/29/2013 16:59 PM

So we were both suppose to sign and fax over our our signature page of the divorce decree.
I was all ready to send mine and he texts this morning saying he won't agree to the non modification clause and he will not get any insurance in case he dies. Said that if he's lucky enough to die before the spousal support ends, I'm shit out of luck.
After being NC for 5 weeks, I called him. I won't write anything in a text or email that can come back to haunt me.
After getting the " I'm only on 40 hours and how am I going to afford everything", I let him have it. My bad , but I told him he should maybe cut back on all the money he has been spending on his whores and save for the future .He hung up on me.
Then he text that he would meet me at the bank and sign. I printed out the papers, met him at the bank and he signed.
I ran to kinkos to fax and Fedex the papers to my lawyer.
This is the text he sent while I was facing that literally caused me to buckle.

"You are still really hot and I would love to fuck you!"

I didn't respond and received thus gem:

"I wasn't saying that to be a smart ass either. I still love you very much."

I thought he had said/done it all to me. I think he is truly insane.

IrishLass518 posted 11/29/2013 17:10 PM

Well, stop the presses and call of the lawyers, he still thinks you're hot and he still loves you. ( Huge eye roll). Love the way he is trying to "win you back". Yup, he's a keeper

You did very well SVW. You got what you needed and ignored the crazy. Moving on

soveryweary posted 11/29/2013 17:25 PM

Thank you so much Irish.
I shared with my best friend and she had no words.
I knew the dear souls here would get it.:0)

sparkysable posted 11/29/2013 17:40 PM

he is a disgusting human being.

movingforward13 posted 11/29/2013 20:01 PM

He is a stupid piece of shit.

welcome14 posted 11/29/2013 20:03 PM

Wow. Cause it really is the next hit of the ego kibbles, nothing related to you at all, really. If you had said yes, what a HUGE hit for him. They really don't think at all, and especially not about anything but their needs. ((hugs)) so sorry you have do deal with that fucker, but at least the divorce is almost finished...you go girl!

shiloe posted 11/29/2013 20:35 PM

Does he have an OW you can forward the text too??
One he is saying the same thing to?

Maybe she could appreciate seeing what he sent to you.

FTG

[This message edited by shiloe at 8:35 PM, November 29th (Friday)]

PurpleRose posted 11/29/2013 20:39 PM

Well it worked on the whore so why not take a chance on you, eh?

What a loser he is.

SBB posted 11/30/2013 02:13 AM

Well it worked on the whore so why not take a chance on you, eh?

^^THIS. I think I vomited in my mouth a little.

There are no fish in this pond.
This pond has no water.
Fuck.Off.

persevere posted 11/30/2013 02:47 AM

AYFKM? Sometimes stupidity truly has no limits...

Bravenewgirl posted 11/30/2013 05:45 AM

Holy sweet mother of moses, WHAT THE FUCK?

I will never understand how their minds work...never!

I think you handled it well. For example, you did not crash your car through his front door and drive over him repeatedly until he was just a stain.

This is a perfect example of why NC is a girl's (and boy's) best friend. One little encounter and he spews that douche-of-the-century gem. Unfreakingbelievable. Insane is the most apt description indeed.

WH texted me pictures of his junk throughout the aftermath of Dday, even while telling me that he he lurrrrved OW. Oh, darling, I am disappointed that you have a side-whore, but your erect penis is just soooo seductive that you can eat all the cake you want! Sheesh.

Your head is high, you did not respond (well done you!), you have what you needed, and now you can go back to ignoring the POS.

Onward.

soveryweary posted 11/30/2013 05:54 AM

I just think you are all the best.
Love the responses, thanks so much!!

Threnody posted 11/30/2013 08:59 AM

"I wanted to fuck you, too. That's why I had you sign these papers."

Okay. Maybe not. But hopefully you're smiling.

*hug*

Compartmented posted 11/30/2013 09:10 AM

SoVeryWeary...I received a similar text upon settlement of our divorce. Really sucks. It made me think he was either trying to be mean, or really was nuts enough to think I'd go for it.

I think you handled it well. For example, you did not crash your car through his front door and drive over him repeatedly until he was just a stain.

I really like this ^^^. It says so much!

IrishLass518 posted 11/30/2013 11:52 AM

"I wanted to fuck you, too. That's why I had you sign these papers."


PERFECT

soveryweary posted 11/30/2013 17:30 PM

You ladies rock!!! Hysterical posts.
Thank you!!!

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