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User Topic: Simple question....
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So this may not be the right place to ask - but has anyone tried BAN? There is a local chapter in my area and I'm considering contacting the coordinator to find out about meetings but wanted some input.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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traicionada
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I attended meetings for about 2 years. Do you have specific questions about it?


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Jules1111
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Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is BAN?

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myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beyond Affairs Network - I think if you attended meetings for 2 years that sort of answers my question. My youngest daughter has special needs and when she was a toddler and going through diagnosis it was helpful for me to be a part of a support group and meet with other parents dealing with the same. 14 years later several of us are still in contact. I was thinking BAN would be a way for me to connect with others in my community that can relate to what I'm going through and be another layer of support. I'm just knew to all of this and trying to figure out what I can do for me.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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MammaMia
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, November 29th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to one meeting only. I do like the group but the chapter in my area meets on the night that I have some other commitment. This is the only reason I cannot attend.


And once the storm is over, you wonít remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you wonít be the same person who walked in. Thatís what this stormís all about.Ē

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traicionada
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Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, December 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was the only divorced person in the group & also the youngest but they were a loving and supporting bunch so I enjoyed the meetings. Needless to say, having a safe place to talk about the A was the best part of it.


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, December 1st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks all for your comments. I've contacted my local chapter and plan to attend the next meeting.


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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TheAgonyOfIt
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Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, December 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've gone to a few meetings and plan to continue. Its helpful to be with others who "get it" and to be helped or help others at different phases of journey. Recommend.


Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.

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MammaMia
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let us know how you liked it, please.


And once the storm is over, you wonít remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you wonít be the same person who walked in. Thatís what this stormís all about.Ē

Posts: 878 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South
myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mammamia-

Bad weather in our area cancelled the meeting. I was so looking forward to it but will try again next week! I'll let you know how it goes. Stupid weather!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


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