Hmm, my WH has pretty much the same attitude, he's sorry, but he's not really all that remorseful. He's acting all depressed and morose, which my 16yo said was manipulative. She thinks he's trying to make me feel bad for him. As if! Brandon808 said it To me simply admitting the A was wrong doesn't even rise to the level of the bare minimum to begin R. If she can't even do that then I'd have a hard time seeing you as being in R.