Well, we decided to give R a real try. I'll have been gone from home for a little over 4 months, and our son is 3 weeks old today. H bought a plane ticket last night and will be arriving New Year's Eve to drive back home with baby and me. Needless to say I'm scared. I want to be a family and I want to be happy, but I'm not sure if I know how. H has made a lot of progress but there's still a lot of work to be done.
For those of you who left and came back, where do you begin? I know I'm going to be distracted simply because I'll be caring for the baby but I really need this to work because I don't want all this to have been in vain. I'm desperate for any advice you may have at this point; thanks in advance.