When will he ever stop fucking w/me and how the hell do I stop falling for it??? I am so utterly sick of his tortuous "games".
@stolendreamz - kids all have their own cell phones but I just try to not fish for information from them and they really haven't been w/him at all in the last month or so so it's not been much of an issue... I like your idea about the GPS on their phones tho - I need to do some checking on this. Thanks
Update: I could not help myself I confronted him when he dropped them off. I did however remain cool, calm, and collected - I simply told him that when he takes the kids I need to know where they are, period. I do not w/hold that from him nor would I (on the rare occasion he texts to find out where they are - they often don't respond to him - I ALWAYS let him know where they are) I said that although I'd rather not have to know anything about him anymore, as a responsible parent I need to know where my kids are and if they're going to be at his place then unfortunately I need to know where that is.
He was giddy. Told me about this lovely little 2 bedroom that his boss is completely remodeling for him. It should be done before Christmas so the kids can come over whenever. He is just happy as a pig in shit. He's not only enjoying his freedom from all responsibility (as he actually always has) but now he doesn't have to come home and face the wife and kids he neglects, cheats on, and abandoned. I have freed him from guilt and he is absolutely giddy. And I want to crawl in a hole w/my pain, anger, sadness, self-loathing, fear ... I just want this to stop. I wish I could detach like him. I really do right now.
He just completely mentally tortured me again today and I fell right into it. Again. I'm so mad at myself.