I am writing to you with some information about your wife and my husband. I have hesitated to do this for many months, but I am doing it now because I have decided that if the situation were reversed, I would want to know.
Your wife and my husband began a texting relationship about a year and a half ago. For at least part of the time, this involved your wife Y trying to convince my husband to begin a physical affair. I found out last year and asked him to sever contact.
Despite promises to do so, they continued texting. On January 31st, my husband adjusted a setting on his account, which caused his (and her texts) to appear on my phone. I therefore received a series of texts between your wife and my husband, in which Y tries to talk him into having a physical affair, and my husband says maybe. If you want the details of the conversation, please let me know and I will transcribe it for you.
I asked him again to sever contact. Alas, it appears that didnít happen. Last week I got access to his phone records and found that in August, September and the first part of October, they continued to text (I donít have records before August).
He has told me that they had lunch in September (I believe the 19th or 20th). He says that they never did consummate the much discussed affair, but really, who knows. He did say that she spent lunch talking about how she cheats on you and why.
Please feel free to contact me if you want more information, although this is about as much as I know.